he loves me, cares for me, but he doesnt want to marry me. he doesnt come to meet me only because of my reputation. i think he is totaly unpredictable? i dont know what to do?
2006-09-24 22:26:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jeny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he tellsme he lovesme for ever but if his parents say yes to marry me he doesnt have any problem and if his parents say no than he is not going to marry?
2006-09-24 22:57:36 · update #1
what is your reputation? is it something to be ashamed of? if he doesnt want to marry you then he doesnt want to marry you, if you want more you have to go find someone else
2006-09-24 22:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r bf is not a complete man. he is living in family who is more important than u now n always. so u have to think over this point, a person who is able to tell u i love u but not able to coniue the relationship infront of society how can he agreed to maary with u? i think he is just flirting with u nothing more. if he is serious this is not his replies. so right time is going on to think over this relationship i m damn sure he willnot marry u. now choice is urs u can leave him or find a new guy. its upto u!
2006-09-25 07:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what reputation? if u ask me, he doesnt love you. he might be doing things out of pity. if he did, no matter your reputation, he would want to be with u in public and announce to "society " regardless of what they think. The fact that he deosnt want to marry u is a definate indication he doesnt love u enough to want to spend his life with u.
Move on galfriend.
2006-09-25 05:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little more time and see if you can make him relax a bit. If he goes on the way he does for longer than necessary it'll be time for you to take a break and reassess the situation. For now give the two of you the chance to adjust to each other.
2006-09-25 05:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a wimp then. He must be ashamed of you somehow. Do you want to marry a guy who don't dare to meet you because of a reputation?
2006-09-25 05:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also having exactly the same problem! He does not let his friend or family know my existence. I believe that both of us are worth to be treated better than this crap, why should we take this non-sense? We are worth much more !! I told him that if he want me he have to make our relationship known. else bye bye
2006-09-25 05:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by happie_julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bull crap ,if he ashamed of you and can't deal with your reputation and don't want to marry you ,what hope do you have for this relationship
don't be a door mat move on.
2006-09-25 09:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. In fact, he doesn't know the first thing about love. If he loved you truly, he would not be ashamed of you.
2006-09-25 05:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and not think of him to be a partner
2006-09-25 05:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him...he doesnt love you at all.....his just pretending....
2006-09-25 05:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by gwyn_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋