I Have Heard Men Say Cheating Is When There Is Any Kind Of Penetration Involved. Unless Your wife Is In Another City, State or Country, Then You Are A "Geographical Bachelor" , And Then It Not Cheating. To Me Cheating is Spending Quality Time, Energy And emotions On Any One Other Than Your Spouse. Im I Going over Board When I Say That I Dont Want My Man Talking Dirty And Making Plans With Some Other Woman With Out My Knowledge, No Matter Where He Is. Tell Me What Is Appropriate.
2006-09-24 22:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by Nakia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you are right ,anything that takes away intimacy of any kind from the partner and offers it to some one else is cheating.
2006-09-24 22:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people define cheating in different ways. The important thing is that you and your partner should have the same definition between you, meaning that if a certain behaviour is not considered cheating for one of you, it should be ok for the other to do the same, etc.
2006-09-24 22:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like my wife, I thought cheating was having sex with another woman.
She says it is even just talking to another woman as friends, looking at pictures in magazines , watching graphic videos and having thought s (lust) for another woman.
Given her definition I think all men are cheaters.
2006-09-25 00:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for you and your man to define what you think is cheating. Remember there are allot of different people here and some will want to have a tree-some and don't think anything of it others will go crazy if their mate watches porn or even thinks of it. Usually you are cheating when you are doing things you don't want to tell you mate.
2006-09-24 22:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is up to everyone to decide what the definition of cheating is to them. No matter where they are in the world it's still cheating.
If you concider what you said is cheating, then it is to you. And if he does that, then he is cheating on you.
2006-09-24 22:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating has been misconstrued over the past 40 years. The rules, if you ain't married, it ain't cheating...period. Committed monogamous relationship is a hyperbole, to denigrate the definitions of marriage, and trying to equivocate the consequences of adultery to non-marital couples (i.e. palimony suits)
2006-09-24 22:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cheating...Defined as "got caught"...I am available if you want to cheat
2006-09-24 22:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by mangosailor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can't be with the one you love. Love the one your with. how you do you define, monogamy. I can love and be loved without breaking my vows, what does your pledge mean. you do something outside your vows, its cheating (is your word worth the tp it is written on.) cheating is doing something other than what you gave your word on. relationships occur, but do you remain faithful to your word.
common marriage vow is to "love, honor and cherish" , how much honor is in your word.
you are being cheated!!!! what do you think of yourself.
2006-09-24 22:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋