she says if i will not marry her then she will die. I am also in confusion because first ihave proposed her and then due to family problems i used to neglect her in every mode of my life and hence due to this my love results in hate (but not sure ).realy in fact i can`t able to deside whether i am loving her or not.
2006-09-24 21:49:57 · 16 answers · asked by bhavin2tal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u clearly dont love her.tell her frankly.take help from her best friend or sister.they will hate u but atleast they can take care that she doesnt do anything stupid to herself like suicide.both of u need lot of time to even get into a relationship.both r immature and she's even a blackmailer.
2006-09-24 21:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. clearly you need to make up your mind before you do anything. It seemed like you don't love your gf anymore... and now to the point that you're irritated to just be around her or deal with her.... and it almost felt like you're hating her. First, if she've been through alot for you, it is only fair for you to be there for her in return.. but that doesn't mean you have to marry her or owe her the rest of your life...
Why don't you TRY to make your relationship work without deciding every moment to leave or not. And after a while, if everything still feels so wrong... really, sit her down and talk to her... I think if you tried and everything don't feels right, she will get the vibe and eventually understands the situation.
2006-09-25 05:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You LOVE her, do'nt you? You seem to be concerned about her. You propose her. Then you force yourself to 'hate' her because of some family issues. And now you asking the world. Why do you give a damn if you do'nt acre about her? After all you do not love her!
I hope you will have enough courage to solve the complex problem in a simple manner. Go and face your family; convince them and marry your love.
2006-09-25 05:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejecting her is not a reason for her to die.
If you feel hatred towards her for any reasons, then cut the relationship off as rudely as possible so she can wake up to the fact that being with you wont be a happy life and she can move on. Let her realize that you allow other influences in your life rule your heart.
2006-09-25 04:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u have to take a decision whether u love her or not. If yes then u can proceed otherwise talk to her about ur family but the mistake is yours because u was the first to tell ur love to her so please try to convenience ur family and marry her.
2006-09-25 05:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel proud of yourself.there is someone still love you. i m not believe that you are not in love with her.at least a little bit.right??..But if you cant continue with this relationship then why dont you tell her the truth..dont waste her times waiting for you..good luck!
2006-09-25 05:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K let me put myself in that girls position i would like my boyfriend to tell me what he really feels about me so as not to waste my time n efforts even though it may really hurt it eventually fades away
2006-09-25 05:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you doesn't love your girlfriend yet you proposed... how could you? just tell her youre not ready to be a family man. prevention is better than cure..
2006-09-25 04:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by demi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET THE GIRL GO AND GO TAKE AN ENGLISH CLASS TO PASS THE TIME
2006-09-25 04:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun waste her time.. she may never get hitched and is all because of you who can't even decide things like a man
2006-09-25 04:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by happie_julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋