2006-09-24 21:26:00 · 16 answers · asked by sonai s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THROW HER OUT OF THE WINDOW
2006-09-24 21:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem until I told my mother in law either lay off or stop calling and coming to my home. It has been bliss for a year
2006-09-25 06:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this never goes away. i have the same problem. you get to the point where you just lose it and say there has to be a change. belive me, nothing changes. it might for a little, but then it gets worse. now, there is new crap to use against you that she knows about. if it is really that bad, maybe it isn't worth the relationship. i am thinking about leaving mine because of this and some others. it is just too difficult
2006-09-25 04:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by i-care 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone..as many of us suffer this dilema too,they try and try but some of them fall flat, others survived!to disobey your husband is a sin, a a son to disobey her mother is alsa a sin in muslim,but in all we do have that problems,a mother still thinks her son is her baby.Up to us to show that we need to run our own life by our own without intefere.So ask yourself back,what have i done from the past thats make my life sucks..my moum inlaws want to up hold the laws in my home...
2006-09-25 04:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jebatasmara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can talk 2 u hubby and discuss with ur mother in law whats bothering her
if u react more on what she say she will do purposely
better avoid her talks and don't mind what she say
gandhigiri style
2006-09-25 06:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to answer this question. Give more details. Is your husband backing you up or does he take her side. What is she doing to make it miserable?
Details, Details, Details
2006-09-25 20:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have that plm. when my wife was in hospital for having 2nd baby. I plan to take my daughter she was 1 year old and mother in law want take my kid at home with her and I have nothing to worry. I told her no that my kid, not yours. and that night My daughter was very very sick. I have no choice but called mother in law.
she came and took us to hospital. My daughter keep on saying daddy daddy daddy. I got her and she been holding on me since we waiting for dr. and mother in law keep on you want nana i am here and keep on doing it and my daughter said daddy daddy. I told her to back off leave her alone pls.
Nurse called us in and Mother in law want to take care i told her stop my kid.. look at the nurse and I asked alot of questions and then mother in law bothers me when I am asking question and I told her pls. stop. she won't but nice nurse asked her to wait outside. LOL
But finsihed went home and then i never say anything to mother in law and next day Daughter and I went see wife. and I told my wife not happy about mother in law an dshe told me that yeah my mom told me and she was very proud of you. I like huh? she said that she knew she was wrong. didn't think you know how to take care of yoru own child..from there I didn't have to say hi how are you and stuff and she still do that stupid thing telling me how to do what to do how to be a father. I told them back off and It between me and your daughter ok.
so still on going.. but I have to stand up and tell her. and if not then I won't go there. I am deaf my wife and kdis are hearing and i can take out my hearing aid and make them so pissed off can't commucate with me LOL. I love doing that. It works. I wish You would do the same thing smile.
2006-09-25 07:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convenience her otherwise leave her and give her monthly some amount . This is the best way for living.
2006-09-25 04:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITTO!!
You tell them to stop criticizing, judging, attacking or/and telling you what to do and then they get MAD!
I had a similar question...
Move far FAR away!
Don't give them your new contact details!
(My bf keeps doing this though!! ARRGH!!)
They are just a waste of your life!
2006-09-25 04:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to know what exactly is her problem.See if you can work the problem out together.
If she is bothering you for no reason at all, go away from her.
2006-09-25 04:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her in an old people's home.
2006-09-25 05:14:08 · answer #11 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋