2006-09-24 21:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by mriganbs s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him -- not in a reproachful tone -- but just state the facts: your marriage isn't going well, you have no intimacy together, you don't enjoy being together anymore, his family is an obstacle to building a strong and intimate marriage, you love him and want to work things out.
So we would like to strengthen you in your endeavor to talk to your husband, and to set clear limits in your relationship. If your brother-in -law has to stay, then ask your husband if he understand that you all must sit down together and discuss the terms by which he can stay.
It is time for you and your husband to learn how to be a couple and to make your marriage the highest priority in your lives. You need to learn how to be together as a couple, how to talk about the important things in your life, how to share your dreams and expectations and how to solve your current challenges. The best way to open up these discussions is to ask him how he would like your marriage to be.
2006-09-24 21:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your husband is agreeing with each and all the merciless issues his relatives are asserting approximately you...you and your husband could have a take a seat. there's a extensive rift on your marriage suitable now and if the themes together with his relatives can not be resolved and in the journey that your husband isn't even going to stick up for you, the marriage would desire to finally end.
2016-10-01 08:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love one another, you can overcome.. Find the problem, why is you husband's family tearing you apart.. Slove the problem together is the best.. Good luck !
2006-09-24 21:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Daydream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is possible ,move awayyy as far as you can and to a place where any of them already are not living at.My ex family distroy our beautiful family too.my kids end up without a father since he walk out on us to go live with a "easy woman" WITH A LONG RECORD WHO WAS MY EX'S SISTER'S FRIEND .If I had the chance to do it all over again ,girl 'll be so fAR AWAY!
2006-09-25 14:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by jubileejoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best choice is to speak with your husband, convince or discuss about the problem if any. And ask your husband to speak to there family.
2006-09-24 21:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by dinesh k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DITTO!!
You tell them to stop criticizing, judging, attacking or/and telling you what to do and then they get MAD!
I had a similar question...
Move far FAR away!
Don't give them your new contact details!
(My bf keeps doing this though!! ARRGH!!)
They are just a waste of your life!
2006-09-24 21:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could give us some details............
Anyways, try talking to your hubby and talk to your in laws as well.I am sure you would be able to straighten things.
Try using vastu and feng shui to bring positive energy in your house.
2006-09-24 21:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married you, not his family. He needs to explain to them that you come first - and show it!
2006-09-25 03:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should opt to stay in another house... if ur husband is on your side
2006-09-24 21:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a better man who's parents appreciate you... :)
2006-09-24 21:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋