2006-09-24 21:25:00 · 9 answers · asked by sonai s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If anything is going to change with your mother-in-law, you and your husband need to be on the same team. Where is he in all of this? He may not believe that his mother told lies about you, but how does he feel about the amount of intrusion that you experience from his mother? What was his response to her letting herself in to your house and watching you make love? If there is any agreement between you about the inappropriateness of her behavior, you may be able to work together to set some boundaries. Perhaps your mother-in-law would be open to some gentle help from her son to "getting a life of her own." If your husband doesn't understand your distress and his role in it, you may have to force him to choose who he wants to be married to - you or his mother. Let me know how things go.
2006-09-24 21:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True but did you try to stop her? It didn't sound like it. The only good part about it is that you are leaving them along. And you were still cheating on your wife with her mother no less. So you have to take the blame as well.
2016-03-27 08:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every mother in law tries to do that. Don't let her. Don't argue with her, just ignore her. Make sure you show your husband your love and be OK with him.
2006-09-24 21:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should make ur mother in law go 4 a long break. dont argue with her. make her belief that she is very dearer to you. and then respect her.
2006-09-24 22:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by rohan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 3rd new one like this so far!
Wow-I'm not alone!
DITTO!!
You tell them to stop criticizing, judging, attacking or/and telling you what to do and then they get MAD!
I had a similar question...
Move far FAR away!
Don't give them your new contact details!
(My bf keeps doing this though!! ARRGH!!)
They are just a waste of your life!
2006-09-24 22:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to hubby. tell him he needs to change some circumstances. you didn't give details but he is the key to fixing the problem.
2006-09-24 22:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sonai, dont let her. if I maybe of any help, you will find me on corrinedrummond@yahoo.it. Ciao
2006-09-24 21:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by corrinedrummond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, mayb she doesnt wanna lose her son, but dont let her get in the way of your love for your husband, if you love him then dont let it bother you.
2006-09-24 21:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and avoid her as much as possible.
2006-09-24 21:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋