TO DIVORCE OR NOT TO DIVORCE: for the sake of children?

Answer 1

Change, however is possible, and giving your husband a chance to prove this change may be the beginning of building a new relationship within your marriage.

Answer 2

dont. try to work things out or at least be civil with each other for the kids. however if it does get really out of hand where uf ind u are just not happy at all and will never find happiness then get a divorce but make sure that ur ex sees ur kids nad develops a relationship with them. it is going to be hard either way as if u stay together u may be showing wrong examples to ur kids especially girls about forming relationships and the way husbands and wives act. u may end up creating a worse environment for them which later on in life they may blame u for. i would sit down and write out what benefits and faults u see in both situation and then weigh which one is the better situation,. only u can tell since u are the only one who can make either situation work for the best.
good luck!

Answer 3

If it is the only alternative left,then you better get a divorce cos no point in staying together for the sake of kids and bitching around every single day.Better explain the situation to the kids and give your life a new start.

Answer 4

well u haven't mentioned the ages of ur children,so its lil tricky 2 adive u on this serious matter.if ur children r teenagers & understanding ppl too then its better u both talk 2 them,tell them honestly why u guys r seperating.but if u have got small kids then plz i request u BOTH 2 sit down & have a conversation with each other & plz atleast try once 4 the sake of ur kids future.u know,this is the age where they wud like their parents 2 b beside them,teach them,guide them, play with them & love them like noone else can.b4 the society its the role of the parents 2 groom them & help them become a better prsn in life.so,eventough, its not my rt 2 tell u guys what 2 do nxt but if they still r young & naive its my humble request 2 both of u 2 plz thing again b4 u make any further moves 4 which u might have 2 regret later.good luck 2 u & ur family.Ciao!

Answer 5

If you are an Indian, except for the worst circumstances, try to compromise and your present problems, whatever it may be, may solve by time or you can get help from your parents, relatives and friends. By going for divorce, you may be spoiling yours as well as your children's future and your children may blame you tomorrow. And a divorsed lady does not have any value in Indian society, except in the top of the society or between film stars.

If you are a European or American - go for divorce, as it is usual over there.

Answer 6

I think staying together will be worse for the children but if you n your partner agree to disagree you'll be in better terms n that will send less negative vybes to your children though you'll be seperated they'll not be seeing you treating each other bad i think what you should concentrate on is forgiveness n move on n let the experience make you a better n stronger person for your children's sake

Answer 7

My parents stayed married for the sake of my brother and I, and I wish that they did not. (They later divorced....many many years later) My brother and I had to grow up watching out parents fight and pretty much hate each other. We had to learn from other families and t.v. what healthy relationships were like. It did more harm than good. Don't make your kids suffer.

Answer 8

Hmmm this is a double-edged sword. One one hand you have the divorce that can hurt the children with the seperation. Then we have the stay together that makes the children watch and see their parents fight. I reccomend the seperation......at least that way they have peace and you can at least talk with them and you wont be in a uncomfortable situation.

Answer 9

Every child want to live with both parents, but some are not as lucky as the others. When it comes to love between two individuals or a union like marriage, it takes two to survive. Therefore, when marriage is reduced to living forcibly under one roof, it should end and end soon without any shadow of future regret. It is better to separate as friends than to live together as foes.
Children are sources of formidable energy, separation would hurt them, but they will learn to live with it.

Answer 10

it is not good to stay together for the sake of the children.....they can sense when things are not good and you could do more damage than good. if you can't work things out try to remain friends or at least civil for the kids sake.