2006-09-24 21:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by sonai s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your partner has certain inhibitions which she wants to overcome, let me suggest the following steps. You should know that one of the major obstacles to a mutually fulfilling sexual life is the feeling of being pressured and rushed.
The first step then is to slow down. Try gently massaging your partner. If you find her tense, help her to relax by caressing her slowly. Communicate your love and caring through touch. The more you do that the more she’ll be open to you.
If she feels ready, talk together about your desires and fantasies. Remember the most powerful sexual organ is the mind.
Read books and view videos together which can instruct you on how to add excitement to your sexual life. If you both agree, find a new sexual technique to experiment with. Again, don’t go too fast. Constantly check with your partner if she’s okay with what you’re doing.
2006-09-24 21:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about Sex or Passion for. Desire should not leave ones love life, unfortunately this does happen, due to stress, children, employment, Family.
It depends on what your lifestyle is like, if you have children, get a weekend babysitter, and spend time with your mate, having sex is not necessarily the goal.
Quality time and being attentive to your Love will ultimately bring the excitement back into your "Sex" Life.
2006-09-24 22:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is bored or lost interest in you, then its time to rejuvenate it. Go on a vacation, just the two of you to some romantic place like Munnar, Shimla or Nainital or any other place that suits your budget and talk over things on a one to one basis. Find out your defaults and try to correct them without trying to blame the other. Include lots of foreplay in lovemaking. Try different positions with the consent of each other. Try to please each other without selfish motives.
2006-09-24 21:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something different. Sexually or emotionally. Different positions, different places in the house. Start it, don't wait for him. Do something he isn't expecting. If you really want a change, you may have to initiate it.
2006-09-24 21:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, THAT'S the question I was planning to ask people!
My tip:
Get some naughty books-with pics, ideas, stories, instructions, etc!
With money or a library card!
Have fuuuuun! ;-)
Mmmmmmm
2006-09-24 21:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him and don't wear panties.- you could wear a short skirt and have on heels. flash your **** or ***** in public places , rent porno , make a sex video together or seperate. i am 55 and my wife is 49 and we have an amazing sex life ):!!
2006-09-24 23:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out once or twice. try not to do things your lover don't like try to void little arguments. don't be nervous about trying new things
2006-09-25 00:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by oscar p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strawberries and candle light.
2006-09-24 21:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be creative
by start with you
ur a human just be you?
2006-09-24 21:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by peaches an cream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋