i don't know if he has feeling for me or not? cause he doesn't like talk about love and romantic stuff. he's wery cold.but i know that he wants me wery badly.first i thought he doesnt like me at all but now i think maybe its his culture. his asian. is asian guys dont say what they feel inside?well a don't know it's just weird.
2006-09-24 19:12:30 · 22 answers · asked by busy_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The answer to the question is yes, if you let him.
My question to you is why are you having sexual relations with a man if you have no clue as to how he feels about you? Why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn't love you? Please don't do this to yourself. When you have sex with someone you are risking so much of your life if not your life. Is that something you are willing to risk for someone that doesn't love you. If he loved you then you would know it and wouldn't be here wondering how he feels.
2006-09-24 19:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't ttalk to u about love etc, but do u talk to him about the same thing. Well it seems very unlikely for a guy to be with a gal for more than a year merely for sex, it is something else. What u have asked may be true, but to know what is really going on in his mind u need to talk to him. And if u r thinking about asian guys then its not true for everybody because I know it being an Asian myself. Sitting back and waiting is no solution, rather it complicates the problem. just talk to him elaborately.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 19:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man will use what a man can get for as long as he can. He will marry you and still the only time you get is when you're naked and stretched out on your back. If you're not mentally physically and emotionally happy then he's using you. Dont blame it on his culture blame it on his sex as a male, not to many men open up their feeling to freely but that still doesnt mean you have to compromise what you want in a relationship to satisfy his sexual needs.
2006-09-24 19:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Stickey Ikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , you never know with guys- ASIAN,AFRICAN,AMERICAN,or whatever...!
They can go upto any heights !
Sadly though.
But you would find someone - your true soulmate,just wait..dont be in a relationship for the sake of it ..!!
Go ahead girl , you have your own life and individuality!
Dont let anyone colonise your mind .. and move on and hav no regrets!
All the best may you get someone good , soon enough !
2006-09-24 19:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to think about romance differently than roses and chocolate. Does this guy do things for you just to be nice. Could be anything....he just does it to make you happy, well thats romance, real life romance. If he only wanted sex he would not stick around this long.
2006-09-24 19:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! if he really LOVES you, he will beg for you to come back. If he acts as if nothing happened, then this guy is just using you. move on with your life. Eventually, you will find the right guy for you. You deserve to be loved, cared and even worhisped. Don't waste your time. Life is short -- enjoy it.
2006-09-24 19:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For years and years and years. Vice Verse also. You need be more aggressive and ask the man. Guessing will get you nothing but wrong answers.
2006-09-24 19:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by doschowchows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he'd with you for a year if its only for sex, he'd get bored and wanted some change. i think he does have feelings for you. i lived in Malaysia for awhile. yeah, most Asian men are like that. not very expressive when it comes to feelings...dont worry. if you still have doubts why dont you talk openly with him?
2006-09-24 19:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YES!!!
and vice-versa.
Seems like your the only one with feelings in this relationship.
If you wanna find out if he really cares for you.
Disappear, that will make him wonder and come looking for you.
If he doesnt, there goes your answer.
2006-09-24 19:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by muuuua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very much, a guy can be with a girl for sex only for any time limit.
2006-09-24 19:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋