and you live in the same house with them
2006-09-24 19:10:03 · 23 answers · asked by smokemcalot 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Television
You don't - you need to communicate with them without attacking them about it.. like when you do this, I feel like this. It may just be the person they are - some people are so consumed with themselves, they push others away and don't even realize it.
Take a step back from him - don' t go out of your way to talk to him or her, etc - and maybe they will come to you and ask you what is wrong.. You could tell them that as a friend, you don't see them treating you the same way and with the same respect that you treat them with and that you feel like your feelings are not being respected which is making your living arrangements more than uncomfortable.
If nothing works, you may need to look for somewhere else to live. Sometimes friends are friends til we move in with them or go away with them - then you see the real person - all sides... but as their friend you do need to accept the good and bad but that does not mean that it is ok for them to treat you poorly - If you treat them with respect they should return that respect so tell them you need to talk and just say that if the rest of the things make you uncomfortable saying.
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2006-09-24 19:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I think you need to carefully examine the situation and decide if you really think this 'friendship' is worth saving. Look at it from all sides- on one hand, everyone has their faults and if you really do care about that person and want to stay friends, you have to take the bad with the good. That being said, a 'friend' who is rude or mean to you may not be a true friend. If you feel hurt or put down by this person, there is no reason you should have to put up with this. Still, it's possible that he's doesn't realize he is being rude to you. Tell him that his being an a** is hurting your friendship and see what happens, if he doesn't seem to care about your feelings, that's not a true friendship. You don't have to force yourself to love someone who doesn't respect you. And if you don't like being around a person, what's the point of being friends with them?
2006-09-24 19:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by St. Louis Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Friend is Stubborn occasinally well....we all can be at times...If he is Selfish at times...well.. we all can be at times...If he is rude maybe he is having a bad day....but if it seems to be most of the time....Well. Being Stubborn , Rude and Selffish a majority of the time..may have underlying reasons that have nothing to do with you. Or he may just really not want to be, orJust is not your Friend. You deserve to be treated with respect. I think you should ask your friend if their is something you have done to offend him? If there is something bothering him? and if he says no..then figure he is NOT your friend, and move away from that relationship. Look for new friends. If he really wants to be your friend, he will have time to look inside himself, and decide if he misses your friendship. He may come back to your friendship OR he may not. Don't blame yourself for his lack of being a friend, especially ...IF you have been A Good , Loyal, Kind, Honest, Friend Yourself. Move on.
2006-09-25 00:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Grandma Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kick them to the curb and move on my friend was acting like that and she apologized for her behavior and changed her snobby selfish christian dior attitude and now she cool an we have been friends for 20 years since 1986 back when we were in the sixth grade and its all good now
2006-09-24 19:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Those people are not friends. Do what I did and dump the chump; he/she is not worth the effort. You may need to find some new digs to move into, but lose the creep.
2006-09-24 19:11:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my past experience i have learned that a person like that is not really your frind and that you probably have something that they are using you for. you should stop and think about the last feeling that friend made you feel and if its not one that you would like to feel for the rest of your life you need to leave A.S.A.P Good luck.
2006-09-24 19:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Stickey Ikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just oh thank you master i must deserve your rath thank you master it just might stop him or you could record his rudeness and let him hear it on the stereo. or you could be rude back to himjust remember bullies are most the time unhappy people if you stand up to them sometimes they back off
2006-09-24 19:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the bad situation or kick them out of the relationship, house, whatever... get rid of them or remove yourself from the relation ship
2006-09-24 19:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Some things in life you have to take but not from your friends.
2006-09-24 19:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kitkat Bar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have accepted the fact that my friend is like that and i tell her bounds, we talk about our indifferences so we won't cross each other's line.
2006-09-24 19:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋