My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago.One of his boys stop talking to her the other asked her if she still likes him.Her ex always gives her dirty looks and the other day kissed an other girl in front of her on purpose.He wont stop bothering her.But last time I saw him he told me about his new girls butt.And his boy told me not to talk to her.She is confused and ask for my opinon but I really dont know.He was always obsess with her and madly in love to the point where I told her to get a restraining order.
2006-09-24 19:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds as though this guy is expressing his feelings in an immature and annoying manner. He most likely still has feelings for your friend and is trying to get a rise out of her by ensuring that she sees him kissing another girl. If I were you, I would tell your friend to ignore him and his actions. The more your friend cares about his cries for attention, the more he will keep bothering her. If he persists in bothering her, even after she attempts to ignore him, she should question his actions and tell him that it is getting old. He should move on if he has a girlfriend, not act like a two year-old with a grudge.
2006-09-24 19:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by housesoftheholy90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her ex is trying real hard to get her attention. This person may be dangerous and a restraining order may be the way to go, most people do not go to these extremes. If I were her I would try to avoid him as much as possible and when I saw that he was coming my way I would go the other until the obsession stopped or slowed down a lot.
Good Luck to your friend!
2006-09-25 02:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Pam of Ga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been a month. They need to give more time to get over each other and not act like immature brats. They still have feelings for each other, but it doesnt mean its gonna work out and they should realize that and just move on.
2006-09-25 02:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing your friend can do, short of getting a restraining order is just ignore him. i mean she's not into him anymore....him making out with another girl right infront of her is a desperate attempt to make her jealous, but i ask you...what good will that freckin do. maybe you should have one of his boys explain to him that when a girl dumps a guy, she thinks men who try to make them jealous are pathetic....and ametures...
2006-09-25 02:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chit P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to be a fool. He is deliberately trying to hurt her . Does she want the whole world to think she is crazy? Tell her to respect herself and move on with her life. There is always sunshine after rain. She is lucky to have a friend who cares about her.
2006-09-25 02:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to not let it bother her. Be mature about it, she's the one that broke up with him right? Just don't make eye contact with him and he won't try to make her jealous. He does it because he knows that it bothers her. Maybe she should try to find someone new herself! Good Luck.
2006-09-25 02:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by denise r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the restraining order.
2006-09-25 02:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bridget G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer lies in your question itself -IT IS DONE ON PURPOSE..
And reacting to this , would just be making him succeed in his stupid and silly purpose!
So please - JUST IGNORE-thats the keyword!
Please dont let your friend get herself affected by such petty politics!
2006-09-25 02:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what, they aren't together anymore........are they supposed to cater to the ex's needs? I don't bloody think so!
2006-09-25 02:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tell ur friend to say to that guy this:
u kno wat? fcuk off and GET A LIFE u r jux being a fcuking btich ok? if u hate me then FCUK OFF
2006-09-25 02:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋