My girlfriend has a son four yrs old and she never makes time for just us shes alway having to do this or that for him even when I'm over at her house we dont get any time( I'm not talking about sex) shes a great mom that i know but am I asking to much,
2006-09-24 18:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At 4 years old, he demands a lot of attention. You just need to make the effort to be there with her and him. Make it a relationship for three and things will eventually slow down and the attention will get shared.
2006-09-24 18:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.Kids take alot of time.They need all the attention that they can get.When you have a kid,there is no more you and me.It is all about them.Please don't blame her for this.She can not be great for everybody.As a responsible mom,that's what she needs to do.And as a mother of a 4 year old,i can assure you that a 4 year old doesn't know that mommy has to spend some time with other people.Ever since our kids,me and my husband can't have a normal serious conversations.We have to wait until they are sleep for the night.Most of the time my husband sleeps before they do.You just have to compromise if you really love her.
2006-09-24 18:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date a single woman. Really, you're not ready for
children yet. She's being a good Mom, and bad
girlfriend. She needs a man with child raising experience.
You could learn, or move on.
2006-09-24 18:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't u know for every mom their child is the most precious then all, if u really need her so badly why don't u talk to her abt this situation only she can give u the solution.
2006-09-24 18:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking too much. He's only four years old and he needs her full attention right now, especially if his dad isn't around. And for her, if she doesn't spend time with him right now, she'll regret it later because they grow up so fast.
2006-09-24 18:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u are...she has a baby to take care of! dont be so selffish! . or maybe u should find yourself a girlfriend without a baby..Cause thats just trouble i know what i'm telling u! MOVE ON! LET HER GO~!
2006-09-24 18:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by dalia f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goes with the territory
2006-09-24 18:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋