He always away because of the job and he stays with his daughter with his 1st marriage. He visit me once or twice in year. I'm in Asia. Do you think I need this kind of marriage?
2006-09-24 18:09:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He support all the needs but I still need to work because I have 3 kids and a lot of things that need to provide. He thought by sending money is enough for everything.
2006-09-24 18:18:28 · update #1
After reading your other questions, I truly believe you are extremely unhappy. It also sounds as if you think he is unfaithful and he swears at you, he argues with you,, and you never see him. This is not a two sided marriage. If he truly cared about you and your feelings and the kids - he'd find a way to be there for you physically. You call & he won't call you back. He sounds like a selfish invidual who does not deserve your love or you. As hard as it is, it is time to let him know how you feel in no uncertain words. If he cares, he'll make a change. If not, you should get out of this one sided relationship. Good Luck to YOU.
2006-09-24 18:38:24 · answer #1 · answered by HolidayGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he come home at all? Frankly you're not the only one in this kind of marriage. A lot of my cousins are married to men who work abroad and their wives are in their home countries. They visit like once a year or once every 2 years for six weeks and my cousins are all managing...money really is important because once that finishes...the love kinda peters out too...sad but true.
2006-09-25 01:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you should first ask him to get a new career that would keep him home more and if he refuses then you should consider as always your needs. You should move on then because you are not enriching your life this way. A marriage is two people being together loving one another and being with one another. It sounds like you need to look to the future and move on because this situation only seems to be hurting you.........
2006-09-25 01:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once or twice a year? Not much of a marriage, if you ask me. More like pen pals or something. Only you can decide if it's for you, but it doesn't sound like a great idea to me.
2006-09-25 01:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel, If I were you I'll tell him to be with me, find a job here in asia and be together, if not I'll think about move on cos husband and wife should be together, not seperate and work so far away. Sound's like he doesn't care about your feeling to be honest. I'm sorry you should talk to him about this. Good luck^^
2006-09-25 01:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Oww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were happy and satisfied I don't think you would ask. You must be needing more, twice a year is not very much attention. It doesn't take any work when you never see anyone. Personally I require much more attention.
2006-09-25 01:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Want2kno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he stays with his daughter because she might be abit closer to where he works. I am sure he also miss's you, where don't you visit him when you get the chance. You should not always wait for him to visit you since you said he is your husband.
And also if it is his job that is keeping him and you are sure of that then please relax and try visiting him when you also get the chance.
2006-09-26 12:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the mistress and not the wife. He is using you and making a fool out of you. Dump him. I don't think money should be that important for you to be used that way.
2006-09-25 01:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once or twice a year?
I think you should honestly reconsider what your doing to yourself.
Move on, cut your losses and find someone who will cherish you every tick and or tick of your life.
2006-09-25 01:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he support you and give you everything> and can you support yourself or marry again if you divorce him? if you are in asia, you need to consider that.
how do you know he lives with that daughter and has no other woman?
2006-09-25 01:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by new yorkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋