we are in love, but he said he is tired of putting up with my b.s.
2006-09-24 18:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by Janine L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to look at why you are giving him so much b.s.
Fundamentally you have to be how you are but if the b.s. is out of insecurity or the like, I can understand his frustration.
2006-09-24 18:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not knowing what exactly your b.s. involves, it's hard to say. But I would sit down with him, stay really calm and focused, and try to discuss the problem. If emotions get in the way for one or both of you, you may need a third, impartial person to keep things in perspective. Try to be open-minded, and really "listen" to what he is saying. In short, if it's something that can be worked out (fairly easily) then give it a try. But if it involves becoming someone else for him and loosing your identity....run for the hills! There are millions of available partners in the world and life is way too short to settle for one who makes us miserable.
2006-09-24 18:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by oldtrash06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what exactly it is that you're doing that bothers him and then try to change the behavior. If it's something you can't change then move on, because he doesn't love you for who you are. Besides there will always be another guy to come along if this one doesn't work out.
2006-09-24 18:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop clinging. The more you give him the b.s., the further away you drive him.
2006-09-24 18:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by amy_butterflyblade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently he's not in love with you if he is tired of you! when someone is tired of someone that 's it. I've done that before myself.
2006-09-24 18:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by notrustinanyone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit the bs
2006-09-24 18:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG HE IS WITH Samantha C's HUSBAND
2006-09-24 18:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE you need some space.
2006-09-24 18:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋