I came home in the middle of the day to collect something, I saw him an immediaely left. He did not hear me..what do I say ?
2006-09-24 18:07:08 · 24 answers · asked by hmmm... 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
next time you are home and he is scheduled to come home, I would be wearing something simular. then pretend like its no big deal
2006-09-24 18:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi smashes 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say anything, Sweetie. He could be really embaressed about it and even more humiliated that you caught him. Sometimes, people get curiuos and they do things. Or...it could be something he does regularly. You can always take the sneaky approach. Bring up a great discussion with him. Like, maybe, "Say, I read something on the internet about crossdressers the other day, what do you think about it?" Or, "Have you ever seen the Rocky Horror Picture Show? I think we should watch it sometime." (The music is great and the movie is classic) See if he takes interest in it. Depending on how long you've been roommates and if there's a trust between you, you'll know how to take the next step. But if he's not comfortable with the conversation, don't press it..it could result in someone moving out and you could get a worse roomie then a simple fetish with opposite gender clothing. Good luck, Sweetie.
2006-09-25 01:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by LetosGurl85 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look, if it's weirding you out, leave it alone.
If you have no problem with it, then and ONLY then, approach the situation with CAUTION!
If you guys have been friends for a long time, you don't want to do anything that will ruin your friendship or make him become defencive.
If you guys only have known each other for a short time and you don't have a strong friendship, I would still leave it alone as it would make a living arrangement awkward and will eventually lead to arguments and hurt feelings/egos.
2006-09-25 01:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The tactful thing to do would be to say nothing. It's not necessary to embarrass him. So what if he likes nylons and high heels? It's not hurting anyone.
2006-09-25 03:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you see it as something that may potentially be disruptful towards your girlfriend or visiting family in the future then maybe you want to talk to him about scheduling such activities or having some sort of a sign, like a hat on the door etc kind of thing.
2006-09-25 01:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you feel the need to tell him? why do you wanna tell him you saw him like that? he didn't hear, say nothin. If he wanted to discuss it, he would have! if he didn't, don't! and by the way, do not change the way you were lookin at him before the scene... he will feel it!
2006-09-25 02:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Gilno E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just let this go if he wanted to share this part of himself he would and maybe when he trusts you enough he will tell you himself i would let this be one of those best kept secrets everyone has about their roomate
2006-09-25 03:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by lady heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that he shows a gay side in front of you then I think you should hint to him that you know or feel so. but if he is still hiding this side of him from you then you should leave it till he feels comfortable about sharing this with you. it also depends on how you feel about this is it o.k. or does it bother you.
2006-09-25 03:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by redrose81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
He might get embarassed or something. Maybe he's a cross dresser, maybe it was just a costume, who knows. It's best to keep it to yourself. If he wants to talk about it with you, he will when he's ready.
2006-09-25 01:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Buy him size 12 pumps. He'll love them.
2006-09-27 22:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋