your harsh words are what make her cry
its not my job, f*** you, maybe tonight i'll die
your breaking her heart and inside she's falling apart
do you think this doesnt effect her too
you don't know the things she has to go through
get a job, your lazy, f*** your driving me crazy!
I'm sorry she screams as her eyes get hazy
you make her feel inferior, horrible, worthless
her needs, wants and feeling repress
but what does it matter she says to herself
as she cries herself to sleep...
Additional Details
he's my huband...
the 2nd and 6th lines are things he's said to me.. i stay with him because i love him and for our baby..(he's in iraq)
2006-09-24 18:05:53 · 7 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do I think? I think he's going to need a lot of theraphy or anger management classes when he gets back as he sounds very stressed out because of the fact that he's in Iraq and is taking it out on u.
2006-09-24 18:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see how this is tearing you inside. Why cant he be more understanding? He is the one with the problem,,,,, it looks like u have a gift! Your a poet? Use ur gift as therapy. Listen to me...... LOVE RUNS OUT.... there will come a day when u cant take it anymore. I understand you have a baby but we all have rights to make mistakes,.... you might have married the wrong man. So,.... be strong and when he comes back, lay the law down. Always have a plan B. Pack a small luggage bag,.... include an extra pair of car keys,.... baby stuff,... essential stuff for you,.... a credit card, some cash and a prepaid cell phone. You might not need it but have one in case, things turn ugly the day LOVE RUNS OUT
2006-09-25 01:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no matter how much you love him, or he loves you and the baby, you have no right to expose the baby to an emotionally abusive relationship.
i got out of a relationship like that while my baby was still little and as a result she is ok and has good self esteem.
if i hadn't, i expect by now she would be a total mess like her father.
don't model poor self esteem to your child, the baby will imitate you. hundred percent guarantee.
no one deserves abuse. and being exposed to abuse, even emotional and verbal abuse, is also a form of being abused. meaning, baby is abused when you are abused. this is a fact not a speculation.
2006-09-25 01:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by new yorkr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bluntly put in song
War is hell on the homefront too.
He makes you feel worthless yet you still stay.
What happend to loving and cherrishing each other.
He obviously forgot those while you cling to them.
His love went awol, his feelings are m.i.a.
It is time for you to get different tour of duty.
Put his memory to rest before the war comes home.
2006-09-25 01:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen closely,
he's in Iraq, fighting what is now an unjust cause, he's stressed, maybe not coping well, thinking about home but when he is talking to you all his anger is comming out, he needs to learn to control it but you need to give him some slack and just let him calm down, just give him some time-he'll come 'round and will be fine in the end.
cheers
2006-09-25 01:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this mentally abusive relationship while you and the baby are still safe.
2006-09-28 00:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he will be unlucky and as a result you will get lucky.
you have my sympathy
2006-09-25 01:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋