we have not had sex in 3 weeks and we havent had un protected sex in 4 months, she wont take the test in front of me , do you think she's cheating and pregnant
2006-09-24 17:58:43 · 9 answers · asked by jason 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
suspicions without solid proof wont do anyone good. it would be worst for a relationship.
use the love and closeness to settle the problem? if its true that the child is not yours, it'll be revealed sooner or later... no way to escape or deny the true facts.
she's in a lot of stress and you too, cool down and settle the matter calmly. the truth is hard to escape.
2006-09-24 21:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a possibility. Since she won't take the test in front of you then perhaps she doesn't want you to know that she got pregnant. But even if she's 16 days late, if you had sex 3-4 weeks ago without protection it might still be yours. But, if she is cheating then maybe she's hoping to get an abortion before you notice.
2006-09-25 01:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe She is cheating. But if you 2's relationship is very strong, ask her is she cheating. Or I fshe don't say nothing call Maury or somethin. If she is pregnant, don't fret. She might not want you to know yet. During a break-up period between me and my girl, she got pregnant by another guy and I supported her enough that she made the decision to get an abortion. During this time, she told me that my support is somethin she didn't expect. even though she stay with him, me and her connected on a new level. after he left her, i was there to console her and we got back together 2 wks later. So keep a level head and let her go through what she's goning through. If She cheatin, don't blow up. sit down and do somethin constructive, like hangin wit ya boys or working on a hobby. Let her realize her mistake when you don't communcate with her like she's use to.
2006-09-25 01:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume she's cheating without some serious evidence. To love means to trust. As for not wanting to take the test maybe she is just scared of finding out something overwhelming in it's own right.
2006-09-25 01:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sick of dumb lazy guys who don't want to take care of their own. You can get pregnant right after a period by the way, which means 4-6weeks ago, or even have a small period right after getting pregnant, which means 10-12 weeks ago. Grow up! I hope you find out the truth and feel horrible for your accusations later.
2006-09-25 01:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is pregnant, get an attorney to have a blood test done as soon as the baby is born or you may be paying support on a baby whether it is yours or not. Serious, this happens. Good luck. Oh yeah, If she was cheating, dump her.
2006-09-25 01:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even with a condom or what not nothing is perfect.
even if you have not had sex in 3 wks it could be your...it does not matter if it was 4 wks ago it could be yours..
good luck to you
2006-09-25 01:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condom is only 90% safe. You should bring her for a professional checkup.
2006-09-25 01:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, i hope you find out soon...
2006-09-25 01:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋