I think my man needs a little wake up call on what he has with me and how he is taking it for granted,I need tips on what course of action to take.Im a size 12 and thought losing weight may be a start as this effects my level of security.
2006-09-24 17:46:44 · 18 answers · asked by Jade V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u are wanting to do something, do it for yourself and your self confidence. Don't do it to make anyone jealous.
2006-09-24 17:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A size 12 is fine. If you want to lose weight though do it for you, not him. Put a little more zest in your style. Read or look on line for new things to do for more confidence. Believe in YOU! There is nothing more exciting to a man than a woman with self confidence and her own mind. Have a night out with the girls. If you don't have any gf that want to do that, then go do something yourself. EMPOWER yourself! Good luck and God bless
2006-09-25 01:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size 12 isn't that bad, sweetie! I'm a size 10 & my man loves the booty! Tell your love that some guy hit on you at the store. Then the next time you go to that store, kid around that your "admirer" might be there. He might go with you just to protect you. If you are really that insecure about yourself, start walking or biking or join a gym! The energy it gives you feels great & it'll take your mind off of things too!
2006-09-25 00:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think instead of making him jealous, you need to talk to him about this. Its not gonig to work if you start flirting with other men, losing weight is good becausey our man will be more attracted to you and your sex life will improve...but don't flirt with other men...it only harms a relationship more. Talk to your man and see if he listens, because if he doesn't then he's not worth staying with in the first place!
2006-09-25 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to slim down for the sake of your own self esteem, then go for it. But as an opening move in making him jealous- I don't know. I think the whole jealous thing really backfires with most guys.
2006-09-25 00:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dressing with more confidence.. buy sexy bra's and panties.. , go out of your way to fix ur hair nice and do ur make up , go buy a new out fit go to the tanning bed or get ur nails done.. he'll wonder why the change in u suddenly... and ur not doing anything more then trying to get his attention and if he gets jealous thats his problem at that point not urs , because ur not doing anything more then trying to look good for him..
2006-09-25 00:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight for the right reasons....not just to please anyone.
A total makeover will make your man curious...start with your hair and clothes- choose the ones that will complement your assets, don't wait for your size to drop to 8 before you do something. Feeling good about yourself will give you that glow which will make him wonder all the more...Please don't involve another man in your attempt to make him jealous, this will definitely boomerang!
2006-09-25 02:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by zac8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I'm a firm believer in talking first..tell him "look im feeling neglected,i feel takin 4 granted"..if that doesn't work..then ur just gonna have to put on ur sexiest outfit and have a girls night out ...make sure to tell him when u get home how men were talking to u and asked 4 ur #(winking) he won't like that..lol and he will rethink what u told him..Good Luck!!!!!
2006-09-25 01:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress for yourself and everyone else will see your confidence. he'll see what everyone else notices and, trust me, he'll come around. lose weight in a healthy way though...otherwise the rest of you will suffer. 1-2 pounds a week max. love yourself for who you are, no matter what size that is.
2006-09-25 02:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by chantellesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont play childish games, making him jealous wont help, just tell him to pay more attention to you dont beat around the bush about it
2006-09-25 01:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by hottieluxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋