I have rewrot this note over and over again so I am just going to make it short. I am not in love with him and II am falling in love with another man, No I am not married to that man because I just soon found out that the man that I had put my dreams and happiness aside for is still married. He tells me that he legally seperated but still why after 5 years you can not get a divorce. I became pregnant shortly after being with this man, and I felt like I had to stay with him. As the years went by I became unhappy about 2 years in the relaionship but I kept with it for my children but now the way things are happening I want the unhappiness to go away
2006-09-24 17:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
I do not want to hurt the father of my children but I want a life and I am stuck here in this relationship that makes me miserable
the other man and I are so much more compatible with each other than the on eI am with now, The father of my children never took me on a date in 5 years I want to know that I am needed in so many ways than cleaning and being a mother I just want to be Happy
2006-09-24 17:48:46 · update #1
tell him politly thay he will not enjoy your company so whats the point. tell him that u are also unhappy. be polite.
2006-09-24 18:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my thoughts, you should tell him you are tired of waiting for him to get a divorce and introduce him to the one you fell for then say good bye
2006-09-25 00:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther's no easy way just say bye and you are moving on.then drink a beer smoke a joint,git laid by the other man .then tell him he is the biggest s.o.b. you ever met....case close
2006-09-25 00:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by ED S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to ex "good luck in your future"
smile and leave
the best thing is to be happy which you obviously are not with him
Good Luck
2006-09-25 00:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Later dude!
2006-09-25 00:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by bigbadb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a pros and cons list.
then look at it and see what the price is to pay on each side and see if one outweighs the other. . .
2006-09-25 00:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by sweets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with awesome break-up sex
2006-09-25 00:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by leiter_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋