My girlfriend and I spent our night at a friend's party 4 weeks ago. We were very drunk that night. She told me that her breast hurts and feels nauseated every morning. Is she pregnant? I do not want her to be pregnant. I used a condom though and it is my first time losing my virginity to her and her first time. We plan to marry in october 2007, oh great, my future is down the drain, should I plan the marriage earlier like before she has the baby if there is a baby?
2006-09-24 17:38:53 · 13 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You deserve it for being such a horn dog
2006-09-24 17:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time, and condoms are 100% affective.. so its a very good possibility that she is pregnant.. but dont worry just yet..
Alot of womens breast get tender just prior to their period starting.. so it could be that she's about to start menstrating..
How late is she??????
Wait till she's about 2 weeks late, then if she still hasnt started get a pregnancy test.. many things other then pregnancy can make a woman be late .. stress.. ect.. so just hang on tight and try not to worry till theres something to worry about..
If she's pregnant then u have to ask her if she wants to get married right away or if she's ok with still going for the 2007 wedding .. thats something u and her have to decide for yourselves.. and if shes not pregnant.. get her to either go on the pill.. get the depo shot.. or to use some form of birth control.. and STILL use the condoms.. cause nothing but obstaining is 100% .. but the more protection u use.. the less ur chances..
to ur "my future is down the drain" this is why we are suppose to wait till we are married before we have sex.. that way our futures dont go down the drain...
2006-09-25 00:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
October 2007 is not that far away. First get her to do a pregnancy test and if she's positive, go and get married in court so you can plan your ceremony for later. Don't panic, having a kid is not the end of the world and if you're old enough to decide to have sex..then you're old enough to face one of the biggest consequences of premarital sex...unwanted pregnancy. Plan the marriage early if there's a baby because there's no point bringing an illegitimate child in this world if you can avoid it by getting yourself legalized.
2006-09-25 02:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she could be pregnant but you will not know until she takes a preg. test and wanting her to not be pregnant will definitely not make the baby go away hows your future down the drain because the woman you chose to give your virginity away to may be pregnant you said the two of you were planning on getting married next year anyways if shes pregnant you and she will just have to make room for a baby into your lives.
2006-09-25 01:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well calm down.she might be about to start her monthly some women get nauseated right before and sore breasts as well...first things first ask her if she's pregnant find out first no need in jumping to conclusions..if she's is pregnant then the two of u need to sit down and discuss ur future together....and if she isn't pregnant count ur blessings and make sure u r careful w/ ur condoms..Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-25 01:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa slow down there cowboy. ur panicing and jumping to conclusions. first get her to do the pregnancy test and wait to see the results. not everyone that first has a kid thinks their life is in turmoil. just take it slowly, even if u have a kid you cant panic like u are now cuz if so u made the baby so u got to take on the responsibility and to be the father. for every action there is a consequence. just dont think it is the end of the world. u still got your health be thankful for that.
2006-09-25 00:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by djtek19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only takes one time, and you just answered your own question. No, your life is not down the drain, but I suggest you both get some counseling to help you deal with the changes in your life and make some plans. Best wishes.
2006-09-25 00:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor with her and then decide after you find out after she is pregnant or not. Don't rely on at-home tests. Plus her doc might be able to refer you both to a counselor if she is pregnant and to help you sort out your next best decision.
2006-09-25 00:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by happy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the store and get a home preganacy test. Check it - if positive - then go to the doctor's office. THough the home tests are fairly accurate - a doctor is best qualified to tell you if she is pregnant.
2006-09-25 00:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by bigej65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trippin a get a pregnancy test first. Whatever the result you sound to young to get married.
2006-09-25 00:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get here tested and then you will no .. but if you did cover the man then you should be OK she might be going throw some ant flow changes and some time it can make her breast hurt and not make her feel good .. good luck..
2006-09-25 00:44:56 · answer #11 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋