I am dating this guy who wants me to act like his mother what should i do ? everytime we fight i feel like i am battleing his mother, I mean there is nothing wrong with him wanting his mother opinion but even about sex! i want to call it off because everyone in his family know our personal business. This is so hard because i tried talking to him and god knows what else, please help !
2006-09-24 17:15:12 · 8 answers · asked by soawake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What happens in your home should stay there...it is no one Else's business what happens to you and your sex life...
It sound like he needs to grow up and make his own choices.
A real man makes his own choice in life not ask his mother...Don't get me wrong I love my mom.. but my personal life stays that way.My wife does not run to her folks...I don't run to mine...it's been that way for 15 yrs now..since i was 21
2006-09-24 19:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't break a "mama's boy." You say he wants you to act like his mother? I'm sure you don't mean this literally. If you do, run and don't look back cause you're dating Norman Bates.
If you mean he wants you to react to certain issues or clean house like or cook like his mother, well, that's something that you are going to have to decide whether or not you want to accept.
You don't say specifically what he talks to his mother about regarding sex, other than him wanting his mother's opinion. I am presuming you and he are young adults. If you are his "first" and there is no father figure in his life, he very well may have questions about sex in general. But if he is discussing with his mother YOUR sex life, it's time to put a stop to that by telling him you find this behavior unacceptable and to stop it. If he persists, end the relationship.
Good luck.
2006-09-25 00:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by niteowl716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast and as far as you can!!!! Once a mama's boy, always a mama's boy! This sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen! You would always be living in the shadow of his mother. Find yourself a real man!
2006-09-25 00:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being married for 10 years to a total mama's boy, all I can say is try and put a few miles between them. They now live about an hour apart and it has helped our relationship incredibly.
2006-09-25 00:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm break a mama's boy...Why dont you try and have a relationship with his mother?
Tell her that if your bf continues to talk about your relationship with all the details, it's detrimental to continuing it. Ask her kindly for some advice. Get her on your side. ;)
2006-09-25 00:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't blame you. There is nothing wrong with being close to your family but, him sharing your personal relationship information with his family and letting it be know to your other half..yeah I can see it to be embarrassing. Really he shouldn't be telling you what his mother is saying. I would tell him to date his mom.
2006-09-25 00:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ended simply because is making you miseble, and him and his fam will not change for you...
2006-09-25 00:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his butt to the curb....he will never change....
2006-09-25 00:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋