i am 22 FM and really dont want to get married. i really like my freedom and just having fun and doing what i want. eventually i do want to have a baby, when i'm more mature, but i still dont want to share my life or child with a partner. thoughts about this?
2006-09-24 16:54:23 · 9 answers · asked by Olive 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
OLIVE, I'M 44 AND I HAVE 4 GROWN CHILDREN AND 3 GRANDCHILDREN AND I NEVER GOT MARRIED. I LIKE MY LIFE BEING SINGLE AND ENJOYING THE KIDS. I'TS MUCH EASIER TO LEAVE A BOYFRIEND THEN TO GET DIVORCED. DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT.
2006-09-24 16:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's fine, I wish I would of done the same thing. I'm 26 and getting a divorce, you never really know the guy your with until you get married... that's when everything went wrong for me, I got to know the real him, and I didn't like him. I am now happy and single with two kid's. And it's not selfish like other people said, my soon to be ex is a abusive man, and my oldest son want's nothing to do with him.
2006-09-25 00:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Robin W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I disagree on the subject of "don't want to share your life or chile with partner" if it just about you it don't matter but when there is child don't you think that what matter most? otherwise having kids will not be a good options for you. Because there is no kids who rather have both mom and dad compare to just have one
2006-09-24 23:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by nileri_1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your young~
As we mature our viewpoints change accordingly. If they don't then our opinions are usually of no use to anyone. Admitting mistakes and making changes in our own lives~ happen only after learning from our mistakes and changing our own behaviour so that we may see clearly where help is needed by others.
THIS is FREEDOM~ wait until you are ready for it.
2006-09-25 00:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's very selfish. Children deserve two parents if at all possible. Statistically, children living in single parent homes don't fare as well. And if you like your freedom and just having fun, you shouldn't have children. They are a lot of responsibility.
2006-09-24 23:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u have to share the child u dont have a choice on that but u dont have to get married
2006-09-24 23:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok have common law marriage no papers no court just live together my friends are doin it and have 3 kids i wish i would have done it
good luck
2006-09-24 23:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by l9poppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to single mothers.
They will answer your question more realistically than anyone can.
2006-09-24 23:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by ed 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i m not into this ideas. in my country it is not allowed for someone to live alone especially when you have kids.well maybe for you it s no big deal but who know..when you son/daughter grw up..they must be look for the father..and whats gone ne be you answer to them??
2006-09-25 00:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋