Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago, I broke up with her because of small reasons and stuff, but I tried to go back out with her a few days later and she refused because she said she wasnt happy anymore, and told me not to call her, text her, etc anymore. But the past week shes been calling me saying stuff like "I know you're wondering if I hooked up with anybody and the answer is no, I didnt" and told me she hangs out with this boy she almost gave one of my shirts to, but only to say after "I lied I dont hang out with anyone besides Lisa (her friend)" and last night she asked me if I found a girlfriend yet. Shes called me a few times since but also tells me she doesnt want a boyfriend. I'm just wondering if these are signs she may want me back, or may want more time, or just wants to be friends....which I cant handle right now.
2006-09-24 16:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by spiritofjosh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
End it. Don't let her keep you waiting while she is having fun with someone else. Tell her not to call, text email, im, or anything else.
2006-09-24 16:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I also went through the same thing. It is confusing, but the best answer that i can give is to learn to be a good friend. Put what was in the was place and go on. And if she can be just as good a friend, then you know that something can be made of the relationship. remember, Fellowship with
Reliable
Individuals
Endearing
Not withstanding
Devotion
If you can get this from her, she's yours. otherwise let go and let GOD.
2006-09-25 00:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by brian r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think back to why you broke up in the first place. Has that situation changed? Leopards don;t change their spots. If she talks about boy/girl stuff she does not want to just be your friend. She sounds immature. Be bold, come right out and ask her what she wants from you. I know guys are not good at verbal stuff but ask her!!! Maybe it's time to move on.
2006-09-25 00:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with her in the first place? Are you playing games? Why would she want you back a few days later? Why are you confused? If someone broke off a relationship with you and asked to restart it a few days later, would you want them back and even if you did would you trust the person? Would you respect yourself if you went back to the person so easily?
2006-09-24 23:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to keep calling to screw wtih your head. Sounds like she's bored and has nothing better to do but to twist you around. Why be "friends" why a person who confuses you, tells you not to call, admits to lying to you, tells you she doesn't want you, and has said she's not happy with you....and then starts messing with you?
Over means over. It's already dead. Let it go and move on. You can do better.
2006-09-24 23:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, guys have been trying to figure out women for millions of years. Don't waste your youth trying to keep this one. Sounds to me like you quit calling, and she didn't expect that, so now she is lonely or something, who knows. Maybe it hurt her when you quit calling, and she is trying to hurt you back.
2006-09-24 23:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by DallasGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look, she is trying to keep you as her safty man.. if she can't find one, then she'll go back to you... she is scooping you out to save herself the emberestment of a rejection in case you found some body else.... she is so not worth it.. avoid being in the situation were you let her manipulate your feelings, or she'll just keep you in a rod with her..
2006-09-25 00:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably friends. Or probably just wanting attention. Tell her to bugger off.
2006-09-24 23:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a sign she wants u to beg for making up
2006-09-24 23:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by cs313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋