There is this guy that I have been in love with for quite some time. I thought we were building a strong relationship. Than we went our seperate ways. I told him in a letter how I felt about him about a month ago. He comes over only when I call him. He is so sweet and kind, so I don't if he loves me the same way or not? Keep in mind he is really shy when it comes to relationships.
2006-09-24 16:38:49 · 8 answers · asked by jlou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want a relationship, then you can only have one if you communicate.....so when he comes over, ask him how he feels. If he is that shy or doesn't want to talk about it, then by him trying to move on, I'd say he doesn't want the kind of relationship that you want....
2006-09-24 16:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to ruin his sweetness and kindness by introducing another level. Take him for what he is and stop the "love" stuff, it shows and it scares people away. One can love a friend but it doesn;t turn into the kind of love you are thinking about unless it naturally evolves.
2006-09-24 16:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what u want 2 ask him, if he would mind going out 2gther take the pressure off him make him more comfortable and u will see how fast and easy he will open back up 2 u , u said it urself he is shy , iniciate the feelings open up the gates of communication
2006-09-24 16:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably dose feel the same way you do so just keep doing what u usually do with him.
2006-09-24 16:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just tell when you to are together, when he kisses you, when he touches you,when he holds your hand, and just by the way he looks at you.You know it!
2006-09-24 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know. There's a feeling you'll get when your with him and you'll just know. can't explain it any more, if that can even be called an explanation.
2006-09-24 16:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Hopelessly Romantic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to read "Hes Just Not That Into You".......after you read it you might want to ask him a few questions.
2006-09-24 16:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion, if he "loved you back" he would be there more often than just when you call.
2006-09-24 16:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋