I moved to California three weeks ago with my man to live with his mother. We didn't get a long and I was feeling uncomfortable living there so I told him I wanted to leave. He told me to go if I wanted to but while I was gone make sure I got a job, finalized my divorce from my ex husband, opened a bank account and show him proof of all this in five months. He gave me five months to prove i'm doing something with my life or he wants to call it quits for good. After I left and came back to Texas I called him and broke things off because I felt like he wanted me to leave for other reasons. He tole me he changed his password to his email so I couldn't check them and he changed his password on his my space account so I couldn't see who he was talking to. He said is was to see if I could trust him while I was gone for five months and not accuse him of cheating. It sounds like something else to me. Ever since he went home to his moms he's been acting weird. Why did he really want me to leave
2006-09-24 16:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by babegirll23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are the one that wanted to leave........did I miss something here? He wants you to grow up and be responsible.....in that time you are apart you are not together. If you can't do the things he asks and you accuse him of cheating AND you think you have the right to check his email and myspace.....you aren't mature enough babe.........you need to take charge of your own life. Be your own woman, if you still love each other in 6 months then you can move forward with the relationship.......if not, so be it, at least you have stood on your own two feet and taken charge of your life! Good luck, you are now truly free to be your own person!
2006-09-24 16:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first it seems like he wants you to handle your business then later in the paragraph it sounds fishy, right around, not seeing who he's talking to? talking to, that's what sticks out to me, but honestly Trust is a BIG issue in relationships and you have to trust someone so you really shouldn't have those passwords to begin with. if you want him, stick with it and prove it to him, don't be afraid to make requests for yourself from him also. if you really don't want it, i guess just keep it moving. Hope this helps. God Bless
2006-09-24 23:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by ChangedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just get your act together like he suggested. Sounds like you are the one with the problems. Start with the divorce.
2006-09-24 23:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-20 01:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does sound wierd, might be best to just move on and find someone who is more normal
2006-09-24 23:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
'cause he's done..there's a reason he's changed the passwords.if he has nothing to hide why change them?
2006-09-24 23:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by willis_is_40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋