What will i do if im starting to fall out of love with my husband?

Answer 1

It depends on how important love is to you and if you have children or not. Only you can decide what you want to do. I suggest that if you have minor children and there is no abuse going on that you stay together at least until your children graduate high school.

Answer 2

Find ways to fall back IN love with him. Figure out what is was that got you to this point and try to undo some of the damage. I can tell you from experience, the more you dote on your husband and compliment him to yourself and others (even when it is hard) you will find yourself appreciating him more. The more you appreciate him, the more you will love him. And the more you do these things, the more he is likely to return the appreciation and love.

Answer 3

That all depends on how long you've been married? If it's only been a few months-to a couple of years, the true nature of your relationship may be dawning. You may be starting to feel TRUE LOVE--based on friendship and the kind of committment that makes marriages last a lifetime-it's not nearly as frenetic as the "falling in love" we feel at the beginning of a relationship.
But, if you've been married a longer period of time-you may, in fact, be beginning to realize that maybe you aren't/possibly never were actually in love with him. That kind of sucks-particularly if you still like him.

Answer 4

R u sure u hv fallen out of love with ur husband ?U should sit down and recall all d nice,sweet n romantic memories dat u 2 had before,which made both of u husband and wife today.Take out presents ur husband gave u,do all dis things gv u a smile or make u happy ?If yes, means u still love ur husband, is just something dat make u feel dat u hv fallen out of love with him.But if all d memories n presents meaningless to you, dat means u r really fall out of love with him.

Answer 5

take a little vacation even if it's overnight sometimes a change in routine is needed. Communication is 90% of a marriage. Who knows he may be feeling the same thing. I don't know if their are children but maybe therapy is needed. If nothing can be resolved maybe a temporary separation is needed. Good Luck

Answer 6

Start reminding yourself of all the reasons you fell in love with him in the first place. And each day thank him for one of those qualities. It's the little things honey that make a marriage work. What you are feeling happens to all of us at one point in time or another. And when it happens to me, this is what I do...it works like a charm.

Answer 7

simple question, simple answer

take another honeymoon....
it is normal for a couple that fall out of love sometimes, but if you ignore the feeling, it could be dangerous. search your heart why that happend, usually because you are boring. that's why, facation with your couple like honeymoon is a good one. you can find out more about kamasutra as an input for your sex info. or the last way is to find your therapist, consult with your therapist and find out the best way, ok


have a nice try...

Answer 8

Evaluate yourself and find out what is causing your shortcomings.

Seek a counselor and see if you can save your marriage.... but none the less, you need to tell your husband about this asap... Don't drag him along. The two of you need to solve this together.

Answer 9

I stayed in my marriage 4 10 extra years trying to figure that one out

Answer 10

Have you really? Would you mind if he slept with one of your friends or any other woman for that matter? Would you really?
If he got into a serious accident how would you feel?
Love grows and goes thru many changes and doesn't always feel like it did in the beginning.