2006-09-24 16:26:38 · 13 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nah, eventually it becomes taking advantage. The reason is that you are kind because you want to be and the other person will begin taking the kindness for granted and when you don't want to do it anymore you'll feel obligated therefore you are no longer doing it out of kindness, just out of being taken advatage of because if you're kind you won't know how to say no...make sense?
2006-09-24 16:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by azile_wehttam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people can be very abusive of your kindness. But I have met a few who don't take advantage. So there's always an exception to the general rule.
2006-09-24 23:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are people out there that will take advantage of you if your too nice but you need to learn to stand your ground. I don't mean be rude just set boundaries and don't let anyone get through you can't be like just this once because most people just see how far they can push you.
2006-09-24 23:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by tink_1624 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are people out there who won't take advantage of you if you are too kind. I should know. I am one of those "too kind" people. I have seen that those who won't take advantage of you are the "too kind" people too. They will want to give back if you have given something to them. They will be fair to you also. They are out there.
2006-09-24 23:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by California Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, I am not all that kind and from time to time people try to take advantage of me. I do not let them, I put them in their place.
2006-09-24 23:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No !!! Its bad to say but I dont think ive meet anyone that dosent at least try to take advantage of my kindness even family.
2006-09-24 23:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I know of several people but the bad outweights the good ones. I know for sure that certain ones can definitely take your kindness for granted and really abuse and misuse you. No matter how you keep being nice and astound their minds as to why, it gets worse sometimes.
2006-09-24 23:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I did but now I'm starting to think I could have been wrong. I sorry but I'm at a low point in my life so see some things in a new light.
2006-09-24 23:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO i actually havent met anyone. I became a really stingy guy after i noticed everyone was freeloading of me. It really hurt me. I guess it just took my ex gf to tell me I was to nice to losers. Well all in all no one of my old freinds talk to me anymore but i maid new ones.
2006-09-24 23:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by the_cheap_rolex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am kind to most people all of the time, only in rare cases do they reciprocate with ungratefulness.
2006-09-24 23:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋