mean you know it's your life, and it's scripted but do you ever feel like you just can't go on doing it? I recently met a guy who had been married three times and I knew the warning bells were going off but I ignored them and when I finally realized it was wrong and I wanted more out of life, he dropped me like a hot potato. Do you ever feel like you're just messed up in the head and your life is out of control? At one point I was so sick I thought I was going to lose my life but I fought so hard to keep it and now I just feel like I'd wished I'd lost it cuz I can't handle all the pain and emptiness I feel right now
2006-09-24 16:19:40 · 17 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only when I am not medicated...and going through a depressed stage.. I have to keep up on my meds...they make me happy and sane.
2006-09-24 16:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt this way before. I too was VERY sick for years. I nealry lost my life several times. I fought like hell to live. After the ordeal, Iwas very depressed. Iwanted to end it all. Due to my illenss, it is not possible for me to work. I still get depressed about it because before my sickness, I had a very good job. I am only 35 and i feel like iam 90 sometimes. All I can tell you is hang on. I see a counselor once a month. It does help. I have gotten involved in the community a lot more and have two WONDERFUL dogs as well. Maybe get a furry friend? They are GREAT!!! I would not have made it this far without them!!!!
I hope I helped you. I will pray for you.
2006-09-24 16:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by GiddyGiddyGoin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of situation is all a part of life. We all make mistakes, that is why pencils come with erasers! When we loose something we pine for it for a time. Then we get over it. Getting over the trauma of loosing a love is pretty much the same as a death in the family. It takes about 1 year to get over it. You will be shaking your head in a year wondering what the heck you were thinking when you were pining away for this undeserving dude.
And from your question, I can see that you are much to smart to give true consideration to the act of taking your own life.
Simply, the pain and emptiness will pass. Just like a full bladder.
2006-09-24 16:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sometimes I feel like things are just too hard and my gas is running out but all the gas stations are closed...:) But you need to look at all of you blessings like food,home,jobs,....and when your depressed you should call a friend or do something you enjoy. If it's a husband your looking for,just wait because God already as someone picked out for you. You could a million people who seem like the right one,but one God gives you the one,you'll know. Anyways I hope I could be of a little help....
2006-09-24 16:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by BoBa QuEeN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
each day i trust that way. some days are worse then others, at the same time as some are extra ideal. i imagine the older i'm getting the a lot less scared i'm getting of death. I have continually felt that the way i will die is when I kill myself, or having a coronary heart attack or a stroke. it really is hassle-free because i'm a nurse, and that i understand what to search for in someone with melancholy. i wager at the same time as someone like myself suffers from persistent clinical melancholy, you only locate out the thanks to cope with it and also you try to p.c.. your self up and flow on yet another day.
2016-11-23 20:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by rhoat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're talking about. And I know too this is easier said than done but, Girl, hold on. There's no easy way to do it the best you can is take it one day at a time till it stretches to weeks, weeks to months, and months to years and beyond. It can't get any worse than this, right?
To tell you the truth, I force myself to do what I just said but most times these days I screw it up. But I'm still here holding on. I don't know why. That is the truth.
If you need someone to talk to, give me a try.
2006-09-24 16:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mary Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up! I think most of us have felt this way at one point. I know it's like a sick feeling deep down inside but things will get better you have family and friends I'm sure that love you and care about you, and their are alot more guys out there looking for someone you just haven't met him yet.
2006-09-24 16:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep ive felt that many times in my life.. but u just have to remember that sometimes we have to go through the bad to get to the good.. how many times have u seen in ur life that although something hurt really bad, if it hadnt happened it wouldnt of lead u to something else?? my husband and i .. listen to that song "Broken Roads" and its so fitting.. we always wish we had met each other years ago.. because then we wouldnt of gone through all the hell we've gone through with broken marriages (both of our x's cheated and left us).. but when we "really" looked back we realized that the timing wasnt right..when i was married he was single, when i got divorced, he was married.. but we totally believe it was all those different paths that lead us to each other today.. Life has a way of turning on a time.. sometimes it goes from good to bad, sometimes it goes from bad to good.. but u have to learn from it.. u have to believe that all things happen for a reason even if we dont understand it now.. and especially where relationships are concerned, because the person that is right for u.. may just be right around the corner to finding u.. but they just have to go through whatever their going through right now first.. Life is precious.. ive fought for 13 years plus for my son's life he is chronically/terminally ill.. he wasnt suppose to live past 6 months old.. so sometimes when u fight for your life, and for happiness, u get it, if u just dont give up..
2006-09-24 16:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just part of life. Don't rush the death thing.. believe me on day it will come. In the meantime, hang in here with the rest of us and keep off the pills (not saying you take them just warning you that they are not a good thing)
2006-09-24 16:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called DEPRESSION and you need to go to the ER and talk to a doctor if you really feel this way. The emptiness and pain will ease with time. MONTHS It took me 9 mos. after my fiance died to even consider feeling again. Everyone has their own time.
2006-09-24 16:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋