Is it possible these people could love their mate, yet be able to share them with others and wath as others violate their mates?
2006-09-24 16:17:54 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Know 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yea i dont get that either, I would never do that with my husband but i heard that a lot of couples are doing that now and instead of killing the marriage, it actually helps it out. I guess it's up to the different couples.
2006-09-24 16:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Brownie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's possible....it's too bad there are so many people in this world that think "their" beliefs are the "right" beliefs. Can you imagine what life would be like if we all liked the same thing or thought the same way? I'm married & we don't swing, but I have an open mind and realize that some people do. Why is it anyone elses business to question the love a couple may have for eachother just because they enjoy doing things that you don't enjoy?
2006-09-24 16:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong if they did whatever they want to do how to enjoy theirwive/husbands as long as they enjoy themselves and no enfluences, as long as they shared the same ideas of swinging to other couple or threesome... how they did it with other guy or mates?
There's no wrong to having swing to other couples if they keep limit their jealousies. Sharing to other people specially closed friends are not wrong alhough it will adds or enhance more closer friendship among these people.
2006-09-24 20:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? Marriage is not what it use to be for some people. My husband's x-wife got married a few months ago and she went off with her boyfriend for a week white water rafting. She also has another boyfriend on the side. The sad part is that she has children that she does this in front of. I consider her children as mine because I take care of them 99.9% of the year and I LOVE them dearly. I think that some people marry for convenience in her case it was for his benefits and a house. So, to each it's own just keep it on their side of the fence and don't hurt the young ones.
2006-09-24 16:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, they can be in love, but look at it this way, they might be wanting to be with other people, but at least there doing it together, and not behind each others back ......in some cases swinging does make a marriage stronger.....they go together as a couple....they go home together as a couple.....even tho each of them just had a interment time with another person, but they was not hiding it from each others back............
2006-09-24 16:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by mark22059 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they both are enjoying the swinging then yes. It just means that they are very open and comfortable with themselves and that isn't a bad thing at all.
2006-09-24 16:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by im_just_me_612 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do still love each other and its a way to keep a healthy love life when your married! me and my b/f have fun like that and we are madly in love with one another! its just purely adult fun is all it is! no emotions get involved!
2006-09-24 16:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by JESSICAluvzMIKE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can be very much in love as long as they are both happy doing this.
2006-09-24 16:19:21 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can never know what goes on in other peoples heads. Unless they are hitting on you, MYOB.
2006-09-24 16:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, alot of couples do. But, alot think they can, and end up in Divorce court too.
2006-09-24 16:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋