Hello, I need some advice. I get really mad at my boyfriend sometimes because I just start to feel sad sometimes when I he does things that I interpret as him not caring about me. This isn't true, but for some reason I just get really upset and get mad at him and do little things to get his attention. How do I avoid doing this? I feel like I kind of just go a little insane! Help! He's the best guy I've ever met.
2006-09-24 15:54:37 · 3 answers · asked by ash5907 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be yourself If he is making you feel like that then maybe he isnt the guy for you. I know how you feel about him being the best guy you ever met but he just might not be the guy for you. He could be the one that shows you how a guy is suppose to be and you will move on.
2006-09-24 15:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by tamara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds like maybe he isn't as great as you think. Men/boys do things that hurt us, sometimes in error, sometimes maybe less in error than we give them credit for. Here is the deal: if it makes you feel that way, then it is that way. For example: my husband sometimes makes me feel bad when he doesn't do things around the house that he promises to do -- that may seem trivial to you, but it hurts me. I am at home all day looking at the things he didn't do. Sometimes it takes weeks for him to do things. If he was like this before we married, I would not have married him! Not that I don't love him. I do. But, men should treat us great, especially when dating. When we dated my hubby was a gem. He never let things "get by him". But, if a guy is pulling stuff like this when you are dating, I dunno, but I don't think I'd put up with it.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-24 23:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Beth M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned my lesson long a go, That friends and lovers come and go.
2006-09-24 23:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋