2 weeks ago my gf came out and told me she lied about telling me she didnt give her ex bf oral sex. She told me she really did. Ever since then I have had dreams about cheating on her right in front of her face with guys. What do you think this means?
2006-09-24 15:53:25 · 27 answers · asked by ForgeryOfRomance 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are feeling betrayed.
Obviously, you haven't said all you need to say to her about her lie.
2006-09-24 15:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok buddy this sounds like you have trust issues. Maybe you were not totally honest to her about something. And its biting you in the butt and you really want to be the one whos honest, so maybe your dream is trying to make you mad at her so your not so mad at yourself. I dont know the whole situation but for example: someone keeps blaming there bf/gf that they are cheating, blah blah blah, well the reason the person thinks this is because they are cheating so they probably are too. See what I am saying here? Sooooo maybe your dream is telling you that you dont have trust in this girl. Open up with each other, tell her you had this dream, get her reaction. And does it really matter if she had oral sex with her ex? Thats a ex meaning past, what happened then is then not now. So be happy you have her now and not him, but then again trust her and be open and honest! Good Luck!
2006-09-24 15:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by butterflycassandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your angry that she lied to you and you want her to feel as hurt as you did and at the moment you think cheating on her with a guy right in front of her face is what will make it even. Simple tell her your still upset by this and make her crawl. But at the same time she could be thinking it's none of your business what she did in the past with a previous partner. You guys need to talk about this a little more and sort things out, your dreams are only making you stress more.
2006-09-24 18:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You jerk, why did you put her in the position of having to lie about what she had or had not done with her former bf. If she had a bf they must have had some kind of sexual relationship. I trust you had never had any kind of sex with anyone else before? is that right? why should you hold her to a standard that most people, and probably you too, cannot claim. And what damn difference does it make anyway, whether she had oral sex with her former bf. You are such a jerk!
2006-09-24 22:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by reggaeboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't quite trust her anymore (even though, by the way, she did not betray you with this other guy, she just lied to you about something in her past). You want to teach her a good lesson so you have thought of the most shocking thing to show your displeasure with her lying: having sex with someone she would never expect you to have sex with. By the way, sexual dreams rarely have anything to do with sex in real life.
2006-09-24 19:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard time believing that you keep having nighttime dreams about cheating on your gf. The subconcious is not that organized.
Are you sure you are not fantazing about sleeping with men in front of her as revenge? If you feel hurt you should discuss it with your gf. If you don't trust her you should get out of the relationship.
2006-09-24 17:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-28 00:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ForgeryOfRomance,
I read your statements and was about to pass it up. But then I realized that there was something to say.
Your dream is showing you that you are just as bad as she is. Right in front of you. It sounds like a real deep forgiving, not a shallow one, but genuine heartfelt forgivence is going to be very good for you.
Somehow, I know I'm right on this one.
2006-09-24 20:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean, but i think this means you are slightly jealous of her doing that with him. I have listened to several 'dream doctor' shows, and now i even know what my dreams mean. I think that this dream shows you are semi-jealous of your girlfriend giving her ex oral sex. That's all it shows, 'jealousy' you should talk to her about it, and tell her about your dreams; let her reassure you that she won't do that with anyone else but you at the moment.-Kay
2006-09-24 16:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
zolar's Encyclopedia & Dictionary of Dreams says: Cheating: Take care of won self.
I think you are upset that she did what she did and lied to you about it. Which you have every right to be.
2006-09-24 16:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that you'd better sit down and talk to your gf some more until you get it sorted out in your head. Don't sleep on anger.
2006-09-24 18:52:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋