Theres this girl that definitely showed interest in me last year just before summer break. Its ma grade 10 year now, and we hav no classes the same in semester 1 since i majorly screwed up and chose some aert class over gym. Anyways, we see each other in the halls n stuff but dont really get to talk. In grade 9 last year, we were really close and she even popped in an i love you type of casuallity in her saying this. I was conmfused since she says and acts like this to all her "friends" that she has known for the last couple of years at her high school. I made the assumption that she thought of me as more of a friend, but during the summer she woldnt even see me or anything since she always said her parents were overprotective n stuff.
Anyways, i jus want to know if we r more than friends
The problem is, she does all this "dont worry i love you" and good friend stuff to all her friends she has known for a long time.
she missed my day recently w/ no hpy bday or anythin from her.plzhlp
2006-09-24 15:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like just friends if she also tells the same thing to her friends, her parents may be over protective, mine were. Just sit down with her one day, maybe lunch, or after or before school. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels. Maybe its a lack of communication! Good luck!
2006-09-24 15:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by butterflycassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she loves you as a friend, but nothing more. She would definitely have let you know by now if she loves you as more than a friend, and she hasn't. The main thing to remember is that time does heal all and the best thing you can do for yourself is get involved in activities, groups, sports, anything that will channel your energy in a good way and keep you from thinking too much about her. When you do catch yourself thinking about her, make yourself change your thoughts to something else. It'll seem hard at first, but will get easier the more you do it.
The other bit of advice I can give you is whenever in the future you do get involved with a girl, be really super careful you don't choose someone who is under the age of majority. I've worked in the field of law for quite a few years and one of the saddest things I've seen is how many teenage boys have been charged with sexual assault of a minor because the girlfriend's parents or someone else decided to call the police and report the relationship. Once a fellow is convicted of sexual assault, they need to register as a sex offender for the rest of their life, and it affects their life forever. So please be cautious as you get older and don't get hooked into anything that will put you in a bad situaton. Take care and good luck.
2006-09-24 23:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude man, my little high school bro. Here is the deal. Don't sweat the whole love thing right now. She is young and so are you. In ten years all the people you know now won't even exist in your life. You should study and not sweat it. It looks as though your spelling could use a little work. So get smart, make mad money, and then my friend you will have your pick. Oh, one more thing, if a girls mother is hot, then chances are she will be. So check out her mother because that is what you will be looking at in 20 years. Oh, and if her mom is single and hot, put in a good word for me. Cya bud, and remember the world is full of people and there are many things to discover outside the confines of your high school. Don't limit yourself and keep your eyes on the horizon....
2006-09-24 22:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, but she likes you as a friend only. And since u have no classes together, you're friendship is starting to diminish. If you want to keep the friendship, give her a call on the phone, but don't be overwhelming & pushy, remember, this is a friendship - treat her like your other friends. If you "nag" her too much she'll cut off contact.
2006-09-24 22:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she considers you to be just a friend. She should not treat her male friends the way she's treating you if she's not wanting more than friendship.
However, she could be somewhere here on Answers asking people how she should tell you that she likes you.
If it were me I'd just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, maybe see a movie or go walk around the mall & just see what she says.
2006-09-24 22:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are JUST friends. Don't take her "I love you's" at face value. They don't actually mean I love you, they're more of a "you're a good friend" or " I need friends so I'm just going to use love all around". If she forgot you birthday, ask yourself... would someone interested in you forget your birthday...unless of course you didn't let her in on the date.
2006-09-24 22:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i got the same thing right now she always says she loves me but she says that to every one but i told her how i felt and i asked her if she likes me or im just her friend so u should ask her
2006-09-24 22:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by sweetboiiijr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wants to be friends... Maybe if you step up your game and ask her how she feels she may start feeling something
DONT LET YAHOO ANSWERS MAKE THE DECISION FOR YOU!!! ASK HER!!!
2006-09-24 22:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that reminds me kinda of my situation. except i'm a girl...lol. just talk with her. trust me. i didn't and...our whole friendship's ruined,i'm STILL trying to talk to him about it, but...yeah. anyways just talk to her about it. ya never know, she could be thinking the same thing about you ^.^
2006-09-24 22:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friends
2006-09-24 22:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋