i have tried so many things in order to hit the big "O" i never can. Is something wrong with me? My partner always achieves climax why cant I? Am i the only person who has this problem? I have tried different positions and nothing is working. Sometimes i feel like I am about to but it wont happen for me.
2006-09-24 14:43:48 · 15 answers · asked by yaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to relax and not think about it too much.
Lay on your bed, put your hand down your panties and start playing....close your eyes and just think about what ever turns you on...maybe try some lingerer on while you do it that may make you feel sexier and help.
maybe you could try and purchase a toy like a vibrator or something. You need to figure out your own body and then when you know what you like communicate with your partner and you'll reach the big O!!!
Good Luck!
2006-09-24 14:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Miel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax Totally
2006-09-24 14:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women take more time to achieve an orgasm.sometimes they get it at the 10 minutes,others need 15 or 20 minutes.Mean,your partner need to be on more than 20 minutes,going over your vagina,in different angles,left,right,around,etc.Good luck.
2006-09-24 14:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Go buy an issue of Cosmo or Glamour they are full of sex stuff. Some girls take longer. You may not have the level of trust that you need ot be totally at ease yet. Do you masturbate? You should.
2006-09-24 14:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the big O is not so earth shattering stop worrying about it so much let it come naturally or try a little foreplay. tell your partner to excite you manually maybe that will work also
2006-09-24 14:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to alot of girls, you're not alone. Try using some toys and just take your time and find out what feels good.
2006-09-24 14:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Well i Say.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your uterus is introverted like mine. I could not get one for the longest until the dr told me. She said grab a bottle of wine and get busy lol. For real...i would say get a toy to practice first.
2006-09-24 14:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are dry it won't happen. try using some lube and that might make the friction feel alot better to achive it and move your hips up and down to get the feel going too.
2006-09-24 14:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need more stimulation down there then just reach down there and help yourself out....Dont cheat yourself out of a great orgasm..
2006-09-24 14:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that it takes like half an hour, unless the guy is really good.
2006-09-24 14:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋