i was IMing her and she was already depressed and she just told me she didnt want to live anymore, i called my other frined lee and she and my frined sara all know she cuts herlsef and has a history of cutting herself when shes depressed, then she just said she wanted to die and im so dang worried about her but i dont know what to say to that or what to do
2006-09-24 14:31:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Pray. and I will pray for her too.
Someone needs to be with her now, at this very moment, take this seriously, or she should be on the phone with a hotline for her situation. GOOOOOOOO!
2006-09-24 14:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well bands are supposed to be half fun, but half business. If it's no longer fun and you don't see it going anywhere, leaving should be the right thing to do. But keeping friendships and band stuff separate is really difficult. I just had a falling out with 4 friends because i left my band (I was the singer, and everything was messy and uncoordinated, we weren't able to sound good, and i could work better by myself). My friends got mad, and it's been a few months and we haven't talked since. So I would first, say sorry and talk to him about it, and if it doesn't get anywhere, move on and find new friends. you can't say you didn't try with this dude. Fighting about it will only make the fire worse.
2016-03-27 07:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents tell anyone u can, as a friend all that u can do is make her happy take her to the club get some hot girls fo rher to play with do whatever nad make her happy stay and livew with herand make sure she doesn't hurt herself. tell her that u couldn't even try living live with ehr tlel her u love nad an dmake her happy. If sh eodes hurt herslef make her happy before she does. But the sister she never had.
2006-09-24 14:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by qofpgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lead her to Jesus Christ, the lover of her soul. Tell her to forgive everyone that she needs to forgive, without I.O.U.'s. Then tell her to repent for her sins. God made us in His own image. The Bible clearly says that homosexuals will never enter the kingdom. While you are at it, consider repenting yourself. God is just waiting for His people to repent and to come back to Him. If you really care for your friend and for your own life as well, you will follow my advice. Remember that Jesus died on the cross for all of our sins, while we were still sinners. I was blind once, but now I see. I am not condeming you for your lifestyle. I am just speaking from experience, because neither fornicators, nor drunkards will ever enter the kingdom either. I am a straight female, but I was also deceived by the devil who kept me in bondage through lonliness. I looked for love in all of the wrong places. I wasn't looking for sex, I was looking for love! But, nonetheless I fell into the devil's trap. I had abortions when I got pregnant and now I am 48 years old and childless....Now here is the good news!!!!! I have repented. I am forgiven. I am full of joy! Jesus is my Lord and Savior. I'll never be lonely or deceived by the devil again. I had a dream that changed my life. I died in the dream. I woke up and had a total epiphany. You can think anything that you want about my response...but it comes from love. Please consider giving your life to Jesus. He is the only way. He is the answer to every problem. Thank you for reading my response. I will pray for both of you tonight. God bless you.
2006-09-24 14:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Heavenly Enterprises 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to talk with her when she comes out of the depression, try to make her go to a psychiatrist.
But now you should try to listen what she's feeling and tell her that you care about her, and your other friends too, that you all will miss her and that she matters.
If she has a good relationship with her parents, make her know how they would feel with her death and all the lives that she would be leaving behind.
Convince her to keep busy but not hiding her emotions.
good luck
2006-09-24 14:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by M.A.G. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im tell u right now u need to tell someone NOw!!!.My 22 yr old uncle commit suicide last sunday.It will stick too u forever u will feel u could have had that chance too stop her .Im am very concerned for ur friend and i dont even no her but u need to get her help now before u regret it NOW!!!!
2006-09-24 14:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mizz,Thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your lesbian friend told you she didn't want to live anymore. Take her to the emergency room, the y can get her some help.
2006-09-24 14:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do any one live with her.if so ask some one to watch her with out you telling them why just tell them you are worry about her.then get on your knees and ask god to help.you know prying help allot.ask her why she feel that way.then take it from there.
2006-09-24 14:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by missey1967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you love her no matter what, and encouage her to get some counseling and support
2006-09-24 14:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sydney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
reassure her that everything will be alright. Try to help her see that she needs help and if she decides to seek help you will be her friend no matter what
2006-09-24 14:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋