How can i come out of the closet about being a crossdresser?

Question

i havebeen crossdressing since age 10 and i love but i've kept it a seceret how can i come out. I'm not gay i'm jelousof women they get to wear such nice clothes but how can i come out?

i want to just wear womens clothing at school, home, and work and have people not discriminate me for being gay. I am very attracted to women but i like cross dressing

Answer 1

Whenever you are ready to face the consequences, go for it! Coming out for everyone is hard especially if it involves hurting your loved one. But hey, if they really love you, they will accept you for who you are. If you feel that you will be the happiest person in the whole world coming out, then go ahead and walk out of that closet with your chin up, high heels and all! The most important thing in this world is your happiness and no one else's.

Answer 2

It is not easy being a crossdresser in the open world sometimes you find it is easier to just be locked away
I don't go out of my way to tell people that I am a transgender and have crossdress for many years
what i did was told only my closest friends untill i felt comfortable being around and slowly other people found out
Then i told a doctor as i am on hormones
Then i told my mum and dad that was not easy but they knew Then a few more friends not that i have many
I went out at night walked around so i got used to letting people seeing me some thing that may be hard at times at first

There is nothing wrong with crossdressing it is just clothes but they is a big stimar to it.
Don't be afaid to be how you want to be
The closet is only so big the world is out side find it and find your self
good luck

Answer 3

1. Tell the people you are closest to, and think are most likely to be accepting of it. It's easier if you have at least a few close friends that you can talk to about your crossdressing.

2. Start integrating some women's clothing into your everyday wardrobe - e.g. women's jeans, blouses that could pass for menswear (unless people notice that it buttons on the wrong side, which almost nobody ever stops to notice). Wear lingerie underneath sometimes too, if it doesn't make you too nervous. Wear a bit of subtle makeup when you go out, especially at night.

3. Find out about some transgender/transvestite events in your area, and start to get involved (you can usually either go dressed up or not, depending on your comfort level with going out dressed up).

4. Love yourself, accept yourself, and be yourself!!

Answer 4

I would recommend finding yourself a denim skirt of rational length, some decent hose (not the junk you buy at Walmart), some wedges and a good clean polo shirt, hoodie or jacket and get out of the door as soon as possible !!!

Be who you are. Understand that other people may not at first like you, but every chance you have talk to them, put them at ease and be your normal, cordial self as you would with your closest of friends. You'll be nervous at first, so I would suggest going out with someone somewhere simple on a moonlit evening and just spend as much time as you can in your own element, take a few deep breaths, look up in the sky and and take in how you really feel crossdressed out in the open...

It will take time for people to understand something they've never seen or have experienced before, but if you help them, I gaurantee they will come around and see things as you do and many women will even applaud you for having the balls to just go out and do it.

It's up to you to "put aside the alienation, get on with the fascination, the re-emulation, the underlying theme..." as Rush once put it... :">

Answer 5

I don't know...because the minute you do say that you're a crossdresser you know that everyone is going to say that you are gay...they just don't get the diffference...if you're okay with that then I guess go ahead...but i think you should talk to other people who have been in the same situation before you do.

Answer 6

maybe you should do some research on this. Most cross dressers are not gay. Why do you feel the need to come out. Do you feel desire to go out in public also or are you already doing that? Be comfortable with what you are and be happy. maybe you need a little counciling to help you deal with it. Start with internet....Good luck.

Answer 7

If you have friends you are comfortable with, go for it. I would not suggest it at work, unless you work in a gay bar or a leather shop. And even in some of those you could be discriminated against.

Answer 8

DO you experience the might desire to ? i think i do no longer understand the justifications for desirous to come lower back out.... what you do on your very own residence is your employer. merely like why do homosexuals experience the might desire to announce it... I even have never had the desire to share with others that i'm a heterosexual... What others think of of me is thoroughly no project to me. reliable luck in case you experience you may tell others stuff it is not any ones project ! merely blurt it out or positioned an advert in the newpaper,... that could desire to incredibly plenty look after merchandising it! : )

Answer 9

don t do it bud you WILL regret it, I do not know this from experiance, I have some common sense, find someone on the internet and get together and do that all you wont, inside with the window shades drawn,people are freaked out enough with out any help from you, no offense, pal.

Answer 10

There are many resources on the web. Check out http://www.hrc.org http://www.tri-ess.org and http://www.tgforum.com

Good luck!

Becky