Me and my man have been trying to have a baby since i was 14 (i'm now 21) we have never been sucessful. Does anyone know of any kind of "tricks" that may help us out. ive been to the dr once and he said that he wasnt sure why i wasnt able to concieve. We really want a baby bad right now and dont know what to do
2006-09-24 14:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by crystalyn129 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
We are married. And yes we got problems but who doesnt. I asked for advice not judgement so if you got something smart to say then tell someone else or keep it to yourself. I need serious answers not just hey i need 2 points so im gonna just give my thoughts. And to anyone who said that its good that we cant have a kid, **** you.
2006-09-24 14:50:40 · update #1
If you have been trying for 6 years then I suggest seeing a fertility doctor. If you haven't conceived once in that time no 'trick' will help you.
As for 'el dude'...... your sentence .....
'Please do not have a baby until your at a education level where your writing is comprehensible and spelling is correct."
Should read ..... 'Please do not have a baby until you're at an education level where... etc..... '
Sorry that has nothing to do with trying to conceive but sometimes little things like this need to be pointed out to certain people.
2006-09-24 18:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop trying so hard. It takes 36 hr. for a man to build up a full complement of viable sperm. To much repetition close together will only give you poor quality sperm. Next its not unusual for a women to become allergenic to her mates sperm.Start using a condom for about 6 months. That way you can be sure you didn't build up antibodies to his sperm.
Now you have to work the rhythm method backwards. Find when you ovulate and have him abstain two days before . You will ovulate between 14 and 17 days in your cycle.Sperm can stay in the cervix for 3 days so don't douche after wards.Stay in bed and put a pillow under your butt to tilt your uterus in a position for maxim reception. Follow this process on the 13 and 16 day of your cycle. While your using condoms get a GYN check up.
It will give you a clear mind before hand that every thing is ok. If it a girl name it after me ok.
2006-09-24 22:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by timex846 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my man are having the same problem! I've heard a lot of different suggestions like doggy then keep your *** up in the air for a while after-wards and don't get up right away just stay laying down! but the thing I've heard the most is stop trying the minute you stop trying so hard is when it will happen! or just go buy some ovulation predictors to find out when it will be the perfect time for you to conceive!! ohh did you have him go to the doctor to have his soldiers checked cuz it could be him! if its not then Just keep changing things until ya end up prego! good luck!! ;-) â¥â¥
2006-09-24 21:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by JESSICAluvzMIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after 7 years of trying you should actually have gotten pregnant so if you cant afford to see a fertility Dr check out the vitamins both men and women can take to better your odds have sex only every other day and before spending all your money on ovulating kits take a regular digital temp every morning before you get out of bed do this for at least 2 months and take the record to ob/ and he or she can see when your temp spikes and around when you ovulated. good luck keep the faith.
2006-09-24 21:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by suepetonquot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should not assume it is just you , it could be him you have to go to the Doctor and both get tested ...
tricks won't help...
and what are you doing trying to have kids at 14 how old is he??
baby's will not help the problems go away it actually gets harder,...
2006-09-24 21:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by I hear ya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I quit trying my body relaxed and I got pregnant. It only took me 4 months and I was 38 yeatrs old. I had been trying since I was 23 years old.
2006-09-24 21:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not have a baby until your at a education level where your writing is comprehensible and spelling is correct.
Also get married and give the child a decent life.
Maybe God or nature knows your not fit to be a parent.
Stupid people shouldn't breed.
2006-09-24 21:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Eldude 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Since you were 14? Are you freakin serious?
That is the saddest thing I have ever heard. Im glad you can't have a baby. The last thing we need is babies like you having kids.
2006-09-24 21:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
why not both of u go for a check up to ensure that both of u are fertile.u can also ask ur doct abt the other means of conceiving, eg. pills,tubes. there's alot of ways to conceive this days.not only by sexual intercourse. :) gd luck!
2006-09-24 21:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by nursha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
since you were 14, gross, why u want the baby so bad, need some WIC or Foodstamps, maybe u and ur man are too dumb to know where everything needs to go in the first place
2006-09-24 21:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck'n Da Deuce 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋