in response to answers given to me, the man im with stimulates me completely, its not him. ive tried toys and by myself action. nothing works. im comfortable with him and myself and yet still cannot acheive orgasm. its frustrating and embarrassing. please help
2006-09-24 14:01:03 · 17 answers · asked by nomoreroses 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think it is better just to drop the whole thing. Men have better orgasms then women and they climax much more easier. Their orgasm is like 10 times better than a female orgasm because it comes in one big burst (when they cumm). Why do you think women sell sex to men all the time? Men are willing to pay money for sex? Uh that tells me that men must have a VERY NICE time when they orgasm. So lets just face the fact and stop our opinions about the whole thing. Men have better orgasms and this is why they want sex all the time. Women have to use all kinds of brain tricks, smoke and mirrors to get off. Its a thing called nature. If you are a woman and have a problem with climaxing with your man - MOVE ON PLEASE!!
2006-09-24 14:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Joann Foxx 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What do you mean by an orgasm part 2? The answer is based on your statement.
It all depends upon the individuality and also based on the endocrine (hormonal) responsive system + psychologically based neural responsive system of the individual. Actually speaking there are neumorous females with multiple orgasm, they get orgasm, even before their men achieve an(single) orgasm.
In your case, 1 st, it looks like that, you have used the toys (? sex toys.) They are fake and not a real sensitive and they make a wide, big opening of your vignal canal ( some thing resembles like, soon after the delivery of a baby) based on your frequent use and the inner lining of the vaginal canal becomes rough ( this could be the reason) and not well moisturized.
2nd is that, your self mutilation and any other form of action what you use to reach orgasm, is not able to touch the G-spot or the AFE zone. when we analize this kind of cases we have to ask so many questions and need more informations.
1) The size of the apparutus(?) you use,
2) Environment,
3) Body odor,
4) your age, BMI, etc.
so be satisfy (mentally) with what you have, you need to have positive thoght that i'm going to, getting an orgasm. You need not get frustrated or to embarrasse to ask. In due course you will be all right. Best of luck
2006-09-24 21:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dr 4 evry 1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me like it's time to go to a therapist. The reason why you can't have an orgasm may be psychological, rather than physical.
2006-09-24 21:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all women have orgasm per say and then again you could be trying to hard just let things happen natural.
2006-09-24 21:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by dac39jjc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The more you worry about an orgasm the more you won't orgasm.
Put it out of your mind and enjoy the stimuli.
2006-09-24 21:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have this problem off and on. I notice that it comes up when my depression sets in. I have depression that comes for a couple of months, goes for a couple of months. I think it's because when I'm depressed I'm not all there and can't completely focus on what's going on.
2006-09-24 21:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
come over to my house i will give u orgasm part 3
2006-09-24 21:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To have a good orgasm, you need to meet the ORGASMINATOR!
Yours truly,
2006-09-24 21:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by el.guapo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seek professional help.
2006-09-24 21:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lube?
maybe not.
did u ever read the Godfather? there was a character in there that had the same problem.
2006-09-24 21:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋