my friend is being annoying because she doesnt like my bf. why cant she just live w/ it that i have different taste than her? she puts it in my face that she doesnt like him...i hate it. whats wrong w/ her?
2006-09-24 13:42:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she doesn't like him, that's fine but she need not express her opinion constantly. Yes, you have different taste and you should follow your heart. Express to her that if she was truly your friend, she would trust your judgement. Maybe she's just jealous of the situation and/or the time your spending with him and not her.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART!
2006-09-24 13:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Vi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous of your relationship with this guy. She doesn't have a life or a boyfriend of her own so she wants you to be miserable as well. Don't let her disrespect you and your boyfriend this way especially when he hasn't done anything to her. You need to tell her that if she can't say anything nice about your boyfriend then she needs not to say anything at all. If she doesn't like him that's her problem but she doesn't have to throw it up in your face all the time. Put your foot down and tell her you don't want to hear anymore of this. If she has a problem with how you feel then she honestly doesn't deserve a good friend like you, and you would need to cut ties with her. Don't get bent out of shape over this and don't cry ok. Let your feelings out to her and I promise you will feel so much better after you have done so. If you don't say anything now your anger will bulid up over time and your going to go off on her and explode with anger. You won't see it coming because you will just snap. She needs to be put in her place and you need to stand up for yourself because she'll do this with every boyfriend you'll have that she doesn't like, and it's unacceptable. I wish you the best with this. Take care!!!
2006-09-24 20:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jealous because you have a boyfriend, and maybe she doesn't. But what's wrong with her isn't really the issue. What's wrong with you that it upsets you so much? So what if she doesn't like your boyfriend? It's not as though she's your mother and can tell you what you can and can't do. If she was a true friend, she'd be happy for you, so you don't need her. Find other friends who will be supportive of you, whether they like your boyfriend or not. He is your choice, not theirs. Unless he's a known ax murderer or terrorist, what is there about him not to like? If he treats you well and you love each other, that's all that really matters. So you can quit crying now, and be happy!
2006-09-24 20:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's 3 possible reasons why she's being that way.
1.) She's jealous about the time you are spending with him, or the time that you are not spending with her because of him.
2.) She sees something in him or knows something about him that makes her think he is not a good man for you and is worried about you.
3.) He said or did something to her that made her hate him.
Ask her nicely to tell you why she doesn't like him. You may be surprised at her answer.
2006-09-24 20:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Akage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jealous, but don't let a BF get in the way of a good relationship. Hang in there!
2006-09-24 20:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by n/a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is thera a reason for her not to like or trust him...does he have a bad past? or if not she is probly just jelous... sit her down and ask her wuts going on and what its all about...if he doesnt have a past tell her that she is ur friend and she will always be her friends but she needs to get over it and ur not gong to break up ith him over somehting dumb...does she like him becuz if she dous no guy is worth a good friendship
2006-09-24 20:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by daddys_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a good guy tell her your happy and thats it. Shes your friend and you dont expect her to like him but just acept him and be nice because it makes you,her friend,happy. Being supportive is a big part of friendship.
2006-09-24 20:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like him because he is abusive toward you then she's being a true friend...but if she dislikes himjust because he's not her taste, then she's wrong and should support your choice
2006-09-24 20:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know I was a brat to my friend cuz he ahd a gf I didnt like she'll either get over it if hes ok or if hes bad she wont but if she dont she just aint your friend
2006-09-24 20:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is clearly jealous of your happiness. I strongly suspect you are much prettier and smarter than her and the only way for her to feel better about that is to tear you down. Suggest that she get a makeover- especially on her attitude.
2006-09-24 20:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋