Last nite my boyfriend kept on bringing up my past history about other males Then I ask him why he said never mind and he said he was going to sleep then he hung up I called him back he didn't pick up the phone I just want to know what was that all about And he stil haven't call me yet today what should I do
2006-09-24 13:16:07 · 10 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Who died and made him judge about your past? He needs to grow up and get over it already. He has issues that you don't want to get involved in.
2006-09-24 13:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate why with him as soon as possible. This skill is one of the most important in any relationship. He may have heard a rumor from someone about your previous boyfriends, and is afraid to ask and find out. Most likely he feels insecure about himself and what he means to you, if you have had these feelings for anyone else before etc.. PLEASE LISTEN TO ME when I say this, if he questions you frequently about old boyfriends, friends you have, who with and where you spend your time, or seems controlling in any other way, please be very careful. This kind of person has problems, and you need to stay out of that kind of relationship!!!! If as I said it's just insecurity, then try and help me understand how you feel, and what he means to you. If you are a teenager, then don't feel like you have to rush anything, or have a serious relationship there is plenty time for that.
2006-09-24 20:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Angy FFRTFC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him anything about the past history. He will dwell on it and use it against you. The best is to look to the future and build on it now.
2006-09-24 20:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your past history that bad,may be you need to assess what direction you are going, do you need to be around people that make you feel so bad, or discuss you past, with such judgement.
good luck
2006-09-24 20:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never reveal your past history about your exes to the one you are with now, they will always use it against you.. . he obviously has a problem with it, let him live in the past, as long as it doesnt bother you, if it does - then leave him
2006-09-24 20:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS ISSUES WITH YOUR PAST. I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT GIVE OUT THAT INFORMATION, IT JUST SAVES THE HASSEL LATER ON. THINGS THAT HAPPENED BEFORE ARE HISTORY AND SHOULD STAY THERE.
2006-09-24 20:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you love him and u r with him and not to worry about your past relationships because they have nothing to do with you and ur boyfriends future. tell him he has nothing to worry about.
2006-09-24 20:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by chstarponchild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
question him the next time you talk to him so he will see how you feel
2006-09-24 20:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by misty_51273 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-09-24 20:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
another stupid girl. answer him period.
2006-09-24 20:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋