am i just being paranoid?

Question

guys, this will be a dumbest idiot thing ive ever written in my whole life. im so panic and worrying certain thing.

first of all, i dont do any intercourse at all with my bf because i wanna wait and i dont think im ready. but sometimes i get carry on [im just an ordinary human being] to let my bf fingers me or just dry humping. a few times this month, we were in bed, we started making out [french kissing], dry humping [no naked, still full clothes on, pants, undies, tshirts] then he fingered me. we never do any oral sex or other things except above.

after that i felt so guilty, worry and fell ill [gastro, diahrea, nause, lost my appetite] coz stressing too much. im scare i get pregnant. but i know it is possible 2 get pregnant, if theres *** in his finger

i know im stupid. maybe im just being too paranoid. im 24 and my folks are so old skool. sigh... maybe i need to relax. im waiting for my period. if its not coming,i know i should check with the test. but i cant seem relax at all.

im still a virgin. well let's say ive never had sex before. i know to get pregnant, you need penertration inside.

but i think i was reading so many things on internet about it how it have a lil chance 2get pregnant by doing it, even here and it makes me even worse [paranoid and worryin more]

for anyone who gives me humble opinion, thanks a lot, it makes me calm down a lil bit, at least.

Answer 1

Kudos for knowing you are not ready! Too many young people jump in and end up raising babies they would have rather had later in life.

Go to your regular doctor and talk to him/her. Let him/her tell you the facts that you are too shy to ask your parents about. If you are too shy to talk to a male about this talk to one of the nurses. Get the facts ! Don't trust everything you read on here. Not when it comes to your health and well being. Stress can cause a period to be late.

Good Luck

Note to "Lovey"

Sperm enter the woman’s body through the vagina. Then they make their way through the cervix and womb to the fallopian tubes where the egg is fertilised.

Therefore, it is possible to for a woman to get pregnant without having sexual intercourse (penetration), if there is a chance of any sperm getting into the vagina.

For example, a woman can get pregnant if there is sperm on her fingers and she puts them into her vagina. It would also be possible for pregnancy to happen if the man ejaculates close to the entrance to the vagina or if his erect penis comes into contact with the body near the vagina.

If you think that sperm could come in contact with the vagina in any way, the best way to avoid pregnancy is to use contraception. Only condoms can provide protection against both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). But they can also break and you can still get pregnant or an STD.

Answer 2

i presumed i become paranoid while my ex-spouse and her daughter consistently appeared to have surprisingly alternating text cloth messages. All 3 individuals interior the comparable room and one telephone might beep. Then,the others might beep. etc etc. i could no longer help yet think of that is strange. I checked her telephone on a text cloth message hunt. They have been texting one yet another, with suggestions of what to tell me so they might sneak out and play with the lads who had dope.Paranoid no,divorced particular.

Answer 3

Don't worry, you're not pregnant. But, if you keep stressing out, you can actually make your period late from all the stress you're putting on your body. Just calm down and your period is sure to come. :)

Answer 4

I am sure you are not pregnant; however, I am also sure that if you continue to stress, your period will not come. Relax and if you feel so strongly about what you are doing, then STOP! If he really cares for you, he will respect your decision. Sexual activity is meant to express the love you have for one another, feel closer and to receive and give pleasure. If what you are doing is making you feel bad, then please stop. What kind of love are you sharing if it makes you feel guilty?

Good luck to you...

Answer 5

Sweetie... I think at 24 you should know more about sex !!! You cannot get pregnant unless there is full penetration ... ( with his penis)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to just relax.. and I would also suggest you read more about the ACT OF SEX.. so that you will learn how pregnancy actually happens !!!

Answer 6

Relax... your just being paranoid don't think about too much

Answer 7

you are not pregant!!its okay. Your peroid will come