ok well im 14 and like im stil a virgin but ive ben called a s-l-u-t cuz of wat i do online, i talk w/much older guys and we have internet sex and we talk about wat we wuld want to do to eachother and none of it is out of love for one another its all about sex and ive done it quite a bit, the oldest guy ive ever done it with was like 50 or 54 somwhere in the 50's but ivev jus done it a lot so...am i a s-l-u-t?
2006-09-24 13:05:32 · 43 answers · asked by dmntdchick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No you are not a sIut, just curious i guess. However am sure that you know, but would just like to say that chatting to these people, all though not good is not dangerous, just make sure that you never, never give them any information by which they could contact you.
Also if they know your age, your should also report them to the police - you are not doing anything wrong, but they are. People who are not as clued up as you my fall for this guys and end up getting rapped and/or murdered.
Use your contacts to protect others - make it a good deed, even if you get of on the sex chat, does not mean that you should not
put this perverts away!
2006-09-24 13:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by kel 5 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Honey, let me tell you you're going to hear a lot of things. And im going to be the one to tell you, i personally dont think its safe.
People will say you're a slut just because you do things like that or because their religious or just because they dont agree with what your doing. Your not a slut. Your just taking control of your decisions. Whether their good or bad i cant say. Im not here to make you feel bad nor judge you. When I was younger I was doing the same thing. Online chatting with people and i guess now they call it roleplaying or cyber sex. I think you should wait till your time and keep your inocence because one day the temptation will be to take it farther than that and anything can happen. Remember that nothing is guranteed to noone and that includes your life.
If you want to keep on, then ok. Thats cool. I did it and I didnt turn out to be a slut. A website where you can go is chatpit.com/teenchat.
Its a website for teens, and most likely your going to find people your age and you can put any information about yourself. Usually noone fills it out if you do, put false info.
PS: And for those who say shes a slut think about what you'd say to your child if they would be doing this. Because i dont think its right for you to say to a 14 year old shes a slut nor that shes anything bad. Remember that we were all teens once and WE ALL committed mistakes. Like God said who ever is free of sin throw the first rock.
Hope this helps,
Margret Diana Li Diaz Fley
2006-09-24 13:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by diana li 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember these two "true stories".
A detective carried on an online chat with a girl 13.
She never told him where she lived, not the state or city.
She did tell him her height, the color and length of her hair, her school colors, the school mascot, that she was involved in track, and that she loved the beach.
One day, as she left track after school, a strange man approached her.
He introduced himself as the her internet friend, and that he was a detective.
Georgia.
Long conversation with the parents.
Another.
A girl at college had an internet affair.
After several months, they decided to meet at a motel. The man had the room and, by cell phone, told her where, and the door would be open. When she arrived, she walked in and headed for the bedroom. The man was sprawled on the bed, nude.
DADDY!!!!!!!!!
The least of your worries is to be considered a sl*t. You may wind up in a horrible death!
Can you say, "Pedophile"?
THEY DO NOT LEAVE LIVE WITNESSES!
2006-09-24 13:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not a s-l-u-t, but I definitely think you may have a problem. I'm not trying to judge you or anything, but maybe you do not get enough attention from your parents or something. You need to be careful, because there are a lot of sicko's out in this world. You can't be called a s-l-u-t if you don't put out, you're just considered a tase. Another thing, don't tell people in school about your personal life on the internet and you won't be called one anymore. Good luck.
2006-09-24 13:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your not a slut because you don't put out. If you were a slut you would not be a virgin. But you are reckless i wouldn't talk to 50 year old guys on the internet. Do you watch tv do see how many ppl go miss how many girls end up dead or raped or molested. Perfect example Datline NBC How to Catch an Internet Predator. You don't know who your talking to. It could be one of those sick perverted people. All i can say is be careful be very careful.
2006-09-24 14:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kris aka Kristy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to stop what your doing!! why would you give these old PREDITORS A CHANCE! Im mean come on girl 50-54! thats sick! First off those guys should be in jail for talkin to you about sex and your mom should be watchin your computer to make sure none of these guys are hacking into your computer to try and find out where you live. you should be more careful! your not a slut , sluts put out! but it is kinda ho "ish" to be doing something so stupid! THOSE GUYS ARE PERVERTS YOUR A LITTLE GIRL THATS JUST WRONG! dont let them fool you! be carefull
2006-09-24 15:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by JESSICAluvzMIKE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your confused and exploring your sexuality
Look out for predators and Paedophiles who are preying on you because your young, The more mature man knows how to woo you and flatter you as opposed to the younger boys so you find this attractive. BUt believe me its damm dangerous
NEVER MEET ANYONE
Start changing your tactics, do something else other than online stuff go out into the world and live it your only 14.......... and if you choose to have sex, do it in a safe place with someone you know using a condom.... Not some psycho online
2006-09-24 13:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say so, but it appears that way. I'm fifteen and there is no way I'd have sex of any kind until I'm married. A fourteen year old having sex with older men (contact or internet), is -sadly- considered a s-l-u-t. Since you aren't having physical contact, though, I'd say that you are more irresponsible than slutty. Be careful for those online predators out there. You appear to be the perfect victim for them to pursue and seduce, so I'd stop this instant.
2006-09-24 13:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Zαrα Mikαzuki 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
i think that mummy and daddy should take your computer away or at least install a net nanny or something cause your a silly little girl playing in a grown up world. what do you think a 50 year old man is going to want with a 14 year old girl? he will just be another sad pedo who will lure you into doing sick things, things you shouldnt even know about, god knows you shouldnt even be talking about this sort of thing. Grow up missy, before you get hurt.
2006-09-24 14:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by star28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're involving yourself in some very dangerous behaviour. The problem is that you're too immature and not fully aware of the re-precautions that your actions may cause.
You should re-think what you're doing and find a better way to pass your time. You should have more self respect than degrading yourself at a pervs & molestors level.
2006-09-24 13:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋