my best friend of 3 years scared the crap outta me when we were at our Varsity football game and she kissed another girl like 5-10 times on the cheek, then they were like huggin for like 10 minutes... what do i do? how do i ask her if shes gay?
2006-09-24 13:02:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes not the touchy feely kinda person like she never walks up to her friends and hugs them, and like the girl she hugged they had kissed earlier that day i guess and the girl was bragging about it... so idk
2006-09-24 13:17:54 · update #1
I noticed you kiss and hug this girl alot the other night and was wondering if you have feelings toward her.
2006-09-24 13:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be just friends or also that's what they do when they are congratulating each other about a good sports day. Really a few kisses on the cheek and a long hug has nothing to do with being gay. Girls are kind of touchy feely with each other, so really I do not see what is wrong. If you want to ask her, go ahead and ask. She what see says, she may not ever want to talk to you again though. You may embarrass her.
2006-09-24 20:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing on the cheek doesn't mean she is gay and if she was gay does that make her a lesser friend than if she wasn't gay? no don't ask her it's her life and her prefference if thats the case .how would you feel if she asked you if you were gay? let me answer it for you.number one it would be embaressing for you and number two it would be an insult to you not being gay.let it go if she is gay and wants people to know she will come out of the closet and let it be known.until then she is your friend and treat it as such. good luck. pete
2006-09-24 20:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shoulnd't ask her...If she is, and your her friend then she'll come out to you when she's ready.
Or maybe you can approach it by just asking random questions..
Just start asking her stupid stuff then act like your playing around and ask if she'd ever date a girl..and then you can also answer the question....and say that you wouldnt' or that you would....and just see...
If your close friends then i'm sure you'll find out sooner or later...just don't jump to conclusions that fast, cause you might get her angry.
2006-09-24 20:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by fairydust_1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should break it to her lightly and not suddenly. tell her that she really scared you when she kissed that girl on the cheek a lot and ask her what it means....if she tells you she's gay...then don't start yelling at her...just take a minute for it to soak in and if she tells you that she's not gay then relax.
2006-09-24 20:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by beachh babyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy friend that I know he's gay, but I know he doesn't like talking about it. I emailed him one time and asked him, but I didn't get any response. but I never seen him with a woman, and the things he says to me sometimes makes me feel that he want to do something with me, but then he pretends like he's kidding, just things like that. if you figure out a way to ask your girlfriend, let me know, because I would like to ask my friend the same thing.
2006-09-24 20:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you are in high school. In my experience with the majority of my female friends, most women will hug and kiss their female friends....It's nothing weird.
2006-09-24 20:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by ericschwiet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is your best friend there should be no problem. Just come right and ask. But it should be done privately. More than likely she is finding it hard to share that with you, she probably is afraid to find out that you might reject her. If you are a TRUE friend, you will except her for her no matter what. "TRUE FRIENDS" are hard to come by.......................lotsa luck
2006-09-24 20:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by coyotes_2_dolphins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really have to ask say "Hi friend are you gay?" and get it over and done with. But I would not worry about it as long as she don't do it with you, or are you perhaps[s jealous
2006-09-24 20:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go clean and ask her. Do it nicley so they dont take it the wrong way. Also best friend or not it is none of your best friend.
2006-09-24 20:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by heath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋