we are having a baby boy! im so nervous. we have decided to name him seth james evans.we expect him to be born later this week but we dont know.she has been eating and sleeping alot.i moved in 8 months ago. and when i moved in we kinda celabrated you know. im only 17 and my parents are divorced so my mom is going through a break down. i havnt told her about my lil man seth yet because i dont wanna make it worse. my baby girl (my fiance) is reastin so i beta go c ya!
2006-09-24 12:37:33 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
do you think we should try for another
i mean when he is 1
2006-09-24 12:41:35 · update #1
Congrats! Seems like you two are making some really responsible choices and being really mature :) It's great to see!
Being nervous is normal. You'll have an underlying sense of panic for the first 18 years or so... the mild nervousness until you die.... then you'll stalk them from heaven :P
Adjust to little Seth first, then start talking about another baby after that. It's a lot of work to have two little ones in diapers at the same time.
Oh, and tell your mother. Yeah, she'll probably freak. If she's in councilling, go to her councillor and ask how you should give the news. It would be nice if you gave her a couple days to get over it so she could be there and happy at the birth. If you spring it on her, then her first experience with your son will be shock and a bunch of nasty emotions. And if you wait until after he's born, she'll probably later resent missing out on the birth day because you kept it secret.
2006-09-24 12:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kiari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's normal to be nervous. If I were you I would tell my mom. My mom and I never really got along when I was growing up but when it came to serious things she was always there for me. Now is one of those times when you need all the emotional support you can get. I was afraid to tell her about my first born; I was 18 when I got pregnant and just turned 19 when I had him. My mother was worried about my future of course but she was there for me every step of the way.
Your mom may be going through an emotional battle because of her divorce but having a new baby to love just may be what helps her through it. Either way, she is your mother and you really should tell her. She may be hurt that you waited so long to tell her. Just explain to her how you were afraid that the news may complicate her already difficult emotional situation and you were just worried for her. She will love you for caring.
As far as having another baby. I would wait. At your age it will be difficult enough dealing with such a life changing event of just one child. See how things go, in a year evaluate where you are financially and emotionally then make your decision.
There will be rough times ahead but as long as you keep your priorities straight and keep a commitment to the happiness and well being of your new family then you will pull through this just fine.
Good Luck!
2006-09-26 08:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY
WHAT THE HELL U MEAN SHOULD U TRY FOR ANOTHER
U ARE NOT EVEN OLD ENOUGH TO SIGN FOR YOUR OWN APARTMENT YET
U NEED TO STAY YO TALE IN SCHOOL
GET A JOB
IN KEEP YO PENIS IN YO PANTS
AND U NEED TO BE AT HOME LIKE A YOUNG BOY SHOULD SUPPORTING YOUR MOTHER SOMEHOW
NOT STAYING WITH SOME GIRL U KNOCKED I DONT CARE HOW LONG YALL BEEN TOGETHER YOUR MOTHERS BEEN FROM THE VERY MOMENT U WERE BORN
GET TO YOUR MOM
AND BE THE STRONG INDIVIDUAL SHE NEEDS RIGHT
BE THERE FOR YOUR BABY
BUT BECAUSE OF THE ADULT THING U DECIDED
TRY TO MAKE ADULT DECISIONS
TRY TO BE THERE EQUALLY FOR ALL
MOTHER,GIRLFRIEND,AND BABY
THEY ALL NEED
AND TELLING HER MAY NOT MAKE IT WORSE IT MAY BRIGHTEN HER UP
BUT TELL HER SHE DESERVES TO
KNOW
BEING NERVOUS IS NORMAL BUT BEING A MAN IS A JOB
SO GET THERE
NO OFFENSE
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-25 07:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to come clean with your mother, because if she find out after the baby born it will be more of a shock to her. I think it great your stepping up to the plate and taking care of business, but forget about in the process.
congrats and best of wishes to you and fiancee cant forget about baby Seth.
2006-09-24 12:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by shania02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be nervous Bro. Follow through; do the right thing. U were gonna marry her. Marriage leads to babies. Now that she has a baby, keep goin.
2006-09-24 12:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by BUDDY LUV 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have a good reason to be nervous! Are you working?
You say the baby is due within the week? And your parents don't even know about it? Are you making this up? Something smells fishy....
2006-09-24 12:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a little late to be nervous. That baby is coming. You need to be there to help your fiance after that baby is born because babies are a lot of work.
And you need to tell your mother soon. It would be a bigger shock to tell her after the baby is born.
good luck!
2006-09-24 12:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by momandkids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on the birth of your son!
Make sure you both finish school. Get your education. Then make a permanent commitment to your lady and your son. Get married. Raise your child in a loving and stable environment.
Now what's your question?
2006-09-24 12:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congrats man, i hope u will feel better when Lil Seth arrives.
2006-09-24 12:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 08:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋