well i live in a small city called bengahzi its not that small but there isnt no cinema or mall or anything grood in this city anyway iam i dont hate being a girl i just hate being a girl in libya its sucks i cant go out in night with my friends (the boys can go out when ever they want ) the only going out i have is to go out with my mum lol yah & bythe way iam 16 years old & today i went with her to go to my aunts house but the ******* phone rang & mum has to go to the clinc shes a doctor so shes always busy & my dad too hes a doctor mum go to her job at 9am until 2pm thats not all she go again at 5pm until 8:30pm then she goes home & go to sleep as for my dad he do the same but he dont get home at 8:30 he go to play card with hes friends until 2 am anyway i dont have best friend to go out with they all stick in there houses & we dont share any intrests any not in music or movie nothing i just go to school with a fack smill on my face until the school finish & more worse that
2006-09-24 12:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by lost90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am truly sorry to learn about your sadness; but I have to say that it connected to the cultural differences between the Muslim and western worlds. You have learnt a little about the west, including passable English, and you find your own culture oppressive. That should not make you feel that everything is the west is rosy or paved with gold. There are big problems here too. You must try to change things in very small ways bit by bit. ON NO ACCOUNT MUST YOU DO OR SAY ANYTHING THAT MIGHT PUT YOU IN DANGER!
2006-09-24 12:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by john b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way you only have to put up with this for 2 more years and then you can leave when ever you want to, don't ever wish you are someone else or something else, girls have all the fun trust me when I tell you us girls can get away with anything we want, your life does not sound nice at all but the thing you need to remember is that you will soon be old enough to leave that place and live the rest of your long and wonderful life, stay in school finish studying and then have your fun, travel the world , have fun with other cultures and plenty of hot men, you are young and probably the prettiest girl in Benghazi, and the fact that you don't share any interests with the other people isn't that you are weird it is that you are unique.
2006-09-24 19:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel so bad. What do other girls your age do for fun? Aren't there any girls at your school that you could spend time with? Is there some hobby you might enjoy that would take you away from home and parents for short periods of time? Could you volunteer in a local hospital or care facility? Do you like to read?
2006-09-24 19:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're feeling sorry for your self. cheer up and be happy that you have control over the guys that you date and anything else you wanna do. It is a wonderful thing to be a girl because you can choose so many things in your life.
2006-09-24 19:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sucks..well you should try to have fun with your friends at school or have your friends go out with you and your mom.dont be depressed..just try to make the best out of life...youre only young once =)
2006-09-24 19:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say this, but
you gotta buck up,
you got years ahead of you
you can make it up
when you get old enough
take off & have some fun!!!or you could just put up your hair (assumption) in a ball cap & hope no one recognizes
2006-09-24 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by pizzaboy11290 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents to get you into therapy. You need to take a class in spelling, also.
:D
2006-09-24 19:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to hear that life is that shitty over there for you, that really sucks, but please dont try suicide please its not the right way to go doll! if you need someone to chat with you can always e-mail me at kelikikopa@yahoo.com good luck and God bless,sweetie! ;-)
2006-09-24 19:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by chris w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get checked for depression, or get out more
2006-09-24 19:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Happyworms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋