I have been talking to a guy from Ga for about 2 months, Im from Ky. He came in to see me this weekend. And we had a great weekend. Now that he's gone it had broke my heart. I cant get him out of my head. I dont think I can handle such a distance between us. So how do you handle it. I would appercaite any advice.
2006-09-24 11:55:48 · 16 answers · asked by nikki40380 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT FOCUS ON IT WITH YOUR HEART. NO ONE HAS THE STRENGTH TO ENDURE THE STRESS ALONE. IT LIKE LEAVING YOUR CAR AND NOT TURNING THE LIGHTS OFF.THE DEADER THE BATTERY GET FROM BEING APART THE MORE IT HURT. THIS ALSO SO IS THE METRIX CORE OF HEAD GAMES IF YOU CAN'T BREAK AWAY FROM IT
2006-09-24 12:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, any relationship, takes a lot of work. Give and Take. And long distance relationships are even harder. If you think you can handle being apart from him most of the time, only getting to see him every so often, and all the rest that comes with a LDR, then try it out. If you don't think you would be able to do that, then just keep it casual for now.
2006-09-24 18:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by GRR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I have some experience in this. Because of the hurricane I had to spend 6 months away from my fiance. My advice is this. If you feel that you can't be faithful, then don't wait because you'll only hurt him but if you can be faithful then just treasure the time you do have with him. Take lots of pictures, talk on the phone, email eachother and set up days to look forward to. What I did was mark up my calender for everyday I was planning on seeing him. It made the time pass faster. Absense makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-09-24 18:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance rarely works out--and I don't deal with them, period. First of all, because most guys have a little girl friend on the side while they put me on bay, but also because it is a lot easier to date a guy in town--that's much more real than a guy who sits half the nation away from me. I need to see, touch, and talk to a person or I don't have a relationship
2006-09-24 18:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a similar situation, I understand what you mean! However, I did get to spend to a week with him, and found that on a day to day basis, he is a bit different that i thought, and i am sure he can say the same about me. We were just seeing each other on a date environment, which is absent of everyday stress. Now i get a better picture of him, still care for him, but, i lived before and can live without him!!! Best of luck to you, try to create about a week of everyday living, see if you still feel the same!!!
2006-09-24 19:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'VE BEEN IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SINCE LAST OCTOBER. WE SEE EACHOTHER FOR 6-10 DAYS A MONTH.DURING THE REST OF THE TIME WE TALK ALL THE TIME- THROUGH SMS'S, EMAILS, MESSENGER, PHONE. IT STILL HURTS SO MUCH WHEN WE R APART!!! AND IT'S GETTING MORE PAINFUL EVERTIME, COS WE R GETTING CLOSER. WE GOT MARRIED A MONTH AGO AND I'VE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER IN MY LIFE!! JUST DON'T STOP COMMUNICATING. BEING IN THAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP MAKES U APPRECIATE AND VALUE EACH SECOND U SPEND TOGETHER!! DON'T GIVE IT UP!!
2006-09-24 19:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and most importantly you need to tell him how you feel. that will get things going. he'll call u more and talk to you on the internet more and maybe get a letter every now and then...you can't tell me he doesn't like you because he came to see you over the weekend. it doesn't make since for him to come just because your *friends* he's into you. ok...then you'lll talk to him a lot more so he won't be on your mind he'll be talking to it....
2006-09-24 19:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by andersonvolt93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf is 100 kms away from me right now. The only thing I do is believe in her and keep the communication going. If you're bold enough you can just move in to his place.
2006-09-24 18:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by septiant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to talk to him.Try to move were he is or he can move by you. If you just cant do that then just leave him. It might be hard but it is better than you guys braking each others hearts when you leave.
2006-09-24 19:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by heath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are planning to get closer together then such a relation will just be to difficult for you!!!
2006-09-24 19:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋