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Okay, so I used to be friends with this one girl right, but then she suddenly went all EMO on me and said really mean things about everyone, even though she never knew most of them! So I stopped being her friend, but she always looks at me and now she's trying to get attention from me! AND everyone else. You see, she SUDDENLY became a lesbian overnight (nothing wrong with it, so don't be all "are u a homophobe!?) just because the people she hangs around with are gay or lesbian. She keeps announcing it to everyone and she's driving me crazy! What to do?! Please note that rude and stupid comments WILL BE IGNORED.

2006-09-24 11:47:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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Okay, first of all, I think that you are worrying too much, not trying to be rude or anything. But I think this girl has got low self-esteem issues. Just ignore her. I think that she's got low self esteem issues because you mentioned that "she went all EMO". EMO's have such terribly low self-esteem, and so by her announcing that she's a lesbian time and time again is a form of trying to get attention so that she can feel good about herself, or at least wanted. This girl doesn't sound like she is doing too much harm to you, so why bother caring? After a while, people are going to ignore her "announcements" and will carry on. And if they're really smart, they will ignore her entirely. TRUST ME, you have so much more to worry about then one annoying girl. Good luck!

2006-09-24 11:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0 0

she's just trying to find her place, your choise if you want to be her friend or not, she'll settle down and work out what she is eventually, if you are patient, she might become a very good friend, but you'll probably end up asking the same questions about yourself sooner or later, so it'd be nice to know you have someone who's your friend through all of it

2006-09-24 19:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by aussiegeezer 3 · 0 0

Please note that stupid questions are ignored as well!

2006-09-24 18:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by r g 3 · 0 0

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