My friend is trying to get this guy to like her but i am stuck trying to make him like her. He doesnt bewlieve me when i say my friend likes him. We have both sent him emails trying to get him to believe us and we try calling but we never get an answer. Now he is not talking to her. What do we do?
2006-09-24 11:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Callie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him alone. If she likes him, then she needs to make the moves not you. You are only stuck if you put yourself in that position. It sounds to me like your plan has backfired. Next time, don't get involved. If he were interested, he would have asked your friend out by now. My guess is that he probably is annoyed with you both and wouldn't go out with her even if he did like her. You've gone from trying to get his attention to bothering / stalking him. Stop it. Finally, you can't make someone like you or anyone else. Either they do or they don't.
2006-09-24 12:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh my friend did that with a bunch of preps!! It was a big mistake, now she is known as the stalker! I feel bad for her, but she wouldn't give it up. I would suggest to meet him somewhere, and have your friend and him alone so they can figure this out for themselves.
2006-09-24 11:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's pretty simple,number one you can't make anyone like another person it has to be original and true coming from one person to another.otherwise its just a fantasy.it sounds to me that the guy is pretty down on himself and doesn't think he's good enough for her. sort of like that myself,i can't just see someone i think i'd like and approach them and carry on a conversation.i 'm scared of rejection but we can't all expect everyone to like us it would be a boring life.no challenge,no surprizes and no excitement, how boring can that get? if they did get together sooner or later he might feel that he has to prove something to himself ,like let me see if i can do it again and get another girl.if it's meant to be it will happen without anybody's help.so don't waste your time trying to get him to like her.he just might jump up and do it just to pacify your mind.you can't get people to do anything they don't want to.the more you push the less you get
2006-09-24 11:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be stalking this guy
2006-09-24 11:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋