what to do .whin i ask what are you trying to do .or what do you think is going to happen. i have tryed to be understanding.but i am only tired of the same thing .he trys to find outher girls that finds him interrested.while my back is turned. i fell like i have to watch over my shulder whin i go out lover the weekend he tryed to give a girl his drink i got for him .he did not know i notice it.
2006-09-24 10:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by candy t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to leave him.
He doesn't appreciate you, love you, or respect you.
If he loved you he wouldn't be interested in any other women. If he respected you he wouldn't be flirting with other women or giving them stuff that you got him. If he appreciate you he would love what he has and wouldn't be out flirting with women.
You shouldn't be with this guy, he is only going to hurt you. He does things behind your back because he doesn't want to get hurt... that's the scariest part. You need to let go because if you stay with him then he is going to have an affair, he is showing all of the signs already.
2006-09-24 10:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's asking for trouble. I'd call him out everytime he does it. Then, if he denies or doesn't change, I'd probably play his same tricks. For some reason he is not respecting you - so you must demand it. Start doing some crazy stuff like leaving his as@ at the bar or where ever you are and go somewhere else or go home. Act like nothing has happened and when he calls you don't answer. Don't sympothize with him, let him get home the best way he knows how. Then whenever you see him again, check him on his behavior. Think of ways to make him know - you demand respect and if he is gonna disrepect you there's a price to pay. (try spell check too)
2006-09-24 11:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by questionable 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey hun,Well let me tell ya--Men are dogs--lol---I know i'm a really good looken 1.I Bartended for 11 years and I;ve seen it all.If he thinks he can get away with it(weather u catch him are not)He will keep doing it.What you have to ask yourself is--If you was not there, Would he go ferther with her or leave with her. and or has he??Give him a taste of his own medcine.If he gets pissed,then say I'll stop when u do.If you don't like it theres the door.Guys don't like a lady that let's you walk on them.so go gett'em babes
2006-09-24 11:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Grizz_lee64 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him straight that he should stop doing it. The next time he does it again, pinch him hard around his waist.......it should hurt bad and he will get the message.
2006-09-25 05:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM THAT HIS BEHAVIOUR IS HURTING U! IF HE CARES ABOUT U AND LOVES U HE WILL STOP DOING IT. IF HE DOESN'T STOP, THEN THINK REALLY GOOD IF THAT RELATIONSHIP WORTHS ALL THE NERVES U LOSE ON IT.
2006-09-24 11:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men looking and flirting is just how men are. however him giving a girl a drink you got for him is downright disrespectful. sounds like to me he is insecure and is engaging in this behavior to stroke his ego.
2006-09-24 10:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by taurusbella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probely cause you dont have a brain ITS CALLED SPELL CHECK use it some time but i highly doubt yoiur smart enugh to read this STUPID message so its kinda pointless isnt it, ill send you 5 cents for a new brain
2006-09-24 10:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe cause you can spell. That might be the reason.
2006-09-24 11:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesn't respect you at all. leave the jerk and find someone who will. good luck.
2006-09-24 11:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should do the same to him and see how much he would like it
2006-09-24 10:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋