ok, so i was babysitting for a close family friend of ours down the street. this whole family is very close to ours and they are over at my house all the time. they are a mom, dad, 20 yr old son, 16 yr old daughter, 10 yr old son. i was babysitting for the 10 yr old and he wanted to go outside and ride his bike. it was locked in the shed. i asked him where the key was for it and he told me in daddys night table. so i went to get it. i opened the drawer and didnt see anything at first just tee shirts. i moved the tshirts aside and instead of finding the keys, i found 5 pairs of underwear i had been missing over the past year, and three pictures he had taken of me from when i was in cheerleading practice. i left the stuff i found there and left the room. went outside and left immediately when they got home.now i havent told anyone but i have to babysit this tues and am scared. what should i do?
2006-09-24 10:45:35 · 33 answers · asked by pervertedpantiesniffer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you need to tell your parent.
2006-09-24 10:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by shania02 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell your parents, and they will decide if it's time to tell the police or not. Make sure that your parents won't immediately think the worst or anything. Maybe have your parents come with you next time, so they can ask him a few questions. If he doesn't have an honest explanation for it, then it's probably time to go to the police. Or better yet, don't have your family involved at all, you'd only be able to get him on theft, for stealing the underwear, but that's enough to get the police there to scare him a little. I think that maybe you shouldn't babysit for them anymore. Good luck.
2006-09-25 01:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by keiferalbin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do an identical element at circumstances and that i'm 18 (in my own abode and at the same time as babysitting). only attempt to loosen up and watch and action picture or study a e book, shop the phone close to you for safe practices and shop checking on the girll each so commonly. only understand that you've the abode locked up, and anybody you want inclusive of police or the mother and dad or your mum and dad are a million telephone call away. you'd be nice i'm particular :) A knife will not often help you so as that that you recognize in case you've been actually attacked so i'd get something else like a baseball bat or something; knives will be grew to change into on you so shop your self danger-free.
2016-11-23 19:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents imediately and do not go back to that house again. The dude has a problem and wants you to help him solve it only thing is you 'll never be the same again. This is a very dangerous situation on your part and you need to tell your parents without fail. He might rape you and kill you or somethng bad like that
2006-09-24 11:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like the ten year old set you up. but I could be wrong. secondly you had no buisness going into the parents room and going through night stand. what he is doing is wrong. but then on the other hand you were snooping where you did not belong. this is a tough one. I would want to know how he is getting my underwear and taking pictures. you would think his wife would see them when she does laundry. or who knows maybe one of the older brothers planted all of this as a scare. how would their dad have access to your underwear. it would be easier for the boys to get your underwear then the father. i also find it odd that he would be at your cheer leading practice. right there is a red flag. if you noticed your panties missing before why did you not say something....
2006-09-24 10:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? If you still live at home, You need to tell your parents ASAP and do not go back over there. Tell them you are busy. Your parents should take care of this, the burden shouldn't be on you. If you are grown, do what your instincts are probably telling you....do not go back over there and stop contact.
2006-09-24 11:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think should tell someone that you really trust like mom or dad because when I was 16 something similar happened to me and i did not tell anyone and I eneded up getting rape by the person
So Please tell someone you are more important there will be another job waiting for you somewhere
2006-09-24 10:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Juicy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom or go to the police and tell them wat you found. Tell someone soon before this becomes something more just an obsession for him. If you must babysit then have someone with you someone that you would safe with. But the best thing go to your parents and tell them
2006-09-24 15:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kris aka Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents immediately! This man has an obsession and sometimes these turn dangerous! Dangerous as in kidnapping. Tell your parents immediately.
2006-09-24 12:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't babysit for them anymore.
second tell your parents as soon as possible.
you might also want to tell the wife of this man.
But first in foremost don't babysit for them anymore and make sure you let someone know why you no longer will watch the child.
2006-09-24 11:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by robin_johnson94 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, he is a pedophile. hell yea you should be scared! he went to the trouble of getting your underwear.... i could understand a little crush, but your UNDERWEAR!!!!! wow, if you turn this guy in it would ruin lives! i am SO glad i am not you. if you really want, call the damn police. tell your mother, but is this man single? what is gonna happen to his kids? has he done anything to them? wow, SO glad i am not you!
also, i think the ten year old MEANT for you to find that stuff.
2006-09-24 10:52:13 · answer #11 · answered by bad kitty 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋