i just found out that im pregnant by my ex-boyfriend should i tell him???
2006-09-24 09:41:57 · 22 answers · asked by shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
of curse. father has to know - who ever it is . this is not a soap opera ... this is life .
2006-09-24 09:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by Milos K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did not want to tell my ex boyfriend either, but i thought about all these things these other people are telling you and i thought it was the best thing for me to tell my ex..yeah you will end up dealing with the courts if you guys do not get back together but hat always happens...or if your lucky things could work out and you tow can get back together and raise that baby as a family..good luck..
2006-09-24 16:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by mother of two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tricky. Every man has the right to know about their child. But given your "condition" are you ready to play the " it's mine, it's not mine" game for the next 7 or 8 months? I guess it depends on the type of person your ex is.
2006-09-24 16:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by lilfunmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you are going to have the baby and keep it, have the baby and give it up. Either of these choices he needs to be notified so he can pay child support to you, or sign over custody for adoption. If have an abortion he does not need to know unless you want him to.
Good Luck with this decision.
2006-09-24 16:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by samanny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him as soon as you can,most of the men want to be part of they children lives since the beginning and stop the mother to do an abortion or give him or her away for be raised by someone else if they can afford this , in fact each people future lies in their offspring's.
2006-09-24 16:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Paul Alexandru Cazacliu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. Imagine him finding out a couple of years later tht he had a son/daughter. That would cause alot of Jerry Springer action.
2006-09-24 16:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rita. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the boy deserves the right to know.
2006-09-24 16:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-09-24 16:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he has a right to know. One of the many problems with sex without commitment.
2006-09-24 16:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uuuhhhh YEAH! It's REALLY unfair to keep something like that a secret.
Plus, if he's got any illness or birth defects running in his family, you should know about it.
2006-09-24 16:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father has a right to know.
2006-09-24 17:17:27 · answer #11 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋